While I and most women appreciate a well endowed man, I have been with men that are average in size that were much better lovers than some men that were genitally gifted. The bottom line is this...if you are looking for just sex that is what you get but if you are making love with a man, what makes him exceptional is that he makes love to you as a whole person. this is demonstrated in the way he touches you, talks to you and listens to what your sexual needs are and in the way he incorporates what you need to get off in your lovemaking. For the most part good sex is a mental thing, too many of us get it twisted. Don't get it twisted as you may be missing out on some really exceptional lovers.
2006-09-27 07:40:42
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answered by datingyoungincali 2
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There are lots of qualities that make a man an exceptional lover. Talking and listening to her about lots of things including s*x is near the top of my list.
Also knowing what to do with what you got is important. I mean more than just what's on the front of your body. Like hands and tongue and teeth. Remember all the erogenous zones not just one or two of them
Also surprising her with an unexpected present. I don't mean spend a lot of money either. Sometimes the best gifts I get is a back rub or foot rub after a really long day. Sometimes just cuddling up on the sofa to watch TV. Doing the dishes without being asked. Grilling out for her.
Gift gifts are nice too but it doesn't always have to be expensive. Just make sure it would be something she would like and not a household appliance unless she really wanted one. Have fun with it.
Your woman will consider herself a lucky woman for making such an effort
2006-09-27 08:07:53
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answered by pj_gal 5
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It is funny how every guy who answered your question said we love money. Money is not a bad thing, but it doesn't make a man a better lover!!!!
What a woman wants is for a man to make love to her mind before he makes love to her body. Express interest in her life and truly develop feelings for her before you begin a sexual relationship. If a woman can trust you and depend on you as a friend, she will be more likely to communicate with you about what she wants from you as lover. She will also be more likely to let her guard down in the bedroom and allow you to "explore" a little more.
2006-09-27 08:14:33
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answered by Kailey 5
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Sensitivity
2006-09-27 07:32:43
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answered by goodbye 7
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A biiiiiiiiiig Diiiiiiiiiiiiick
2006-09-27 07:32:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Patience, good conversation. Nice appearance, smells good, and then its to the next things. First you have to be subtle, patience and able to feel the heat. You have to go slow, women need more time and they are moved more by the mood, the setting, and somethings you have no idea. learn to read the signs, if she doesn't tell you the body motions will, her eyes, her lips, the movements of her body. Its actually everything before!
2006-09-27 07:38:33
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answered by david_d112 2
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Ability to tie good knots? LOL
He has to be tall, good looking, intelligent and not too sensitive, but at the same time be capable of housework, cooking and washing up when I work long shifts Recognise that peoples limbic system differ and that we all interpret sensation differently.
Be different to the same old, same old.
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2006-09-27 15:46:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Every quality a real man should have!
2006-09-27 07:37:13
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answered by tiger 1
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My favorite thing about my husband,sexually,is he has these penetarting eyes and when he looks at me I can see how much he wants to F*ck me. Also, I love when he is dominating in a strong way yet isnt beating me,just tough enough to let me know he's my king. Hot!
2006-09-27 07:35:06
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answered by TrofyWife 4
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ARIES SENSITIVITY Listening to the woman Italians and lots of hormones Other firesigns are hot too and Pisces
2006-09-27 07:34:56
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answered by Anonymous
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