2006-09-27 07:14:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All those different men...
All those different relationships.
All the different variables...
Always the same out come?
Hmmm.
It appears that the only consistent feature in all of your failed relationships is you...
Advice? Change....
2006-09-27 07:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Thoughts Like Mine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, like everybody is sayin stop dating losers and all this crap. they need to shut up. u cant tell a loser by just lookin at them. Everybody acts a certain way upon meeting somebody new in hopes to get whatever they want out of the situation. I want everybody on this list to act like they have never made a couple bad dating calls. Ok then, shut up!
To answer ur question, id have to ask how early u decide to sleep with them in the relationship. If a guy gets it from you too easily, then he may feel compelled to cheat, cuz he thinks that you are sprung on him already and wont care. This is not the case i am hoping. Next time ur dating a guy, (not tellin u what to do, just suggestions, trying to help) go out, on actual dates 2-3 times before any real heavy making out even starts. If he thinks your a great person and likes hanging out with u without wantin anything more, then sex will happen in its own time and he will have had a chance to appreciate u for more than just sex. This will hopefully, if he is a mature male, make him think before he cheats and take ur feelings into consideration. If he cheats anyway, just chop it up to a mistake and learn from it. Dont get so down and frustrated. There is somebody out there for everybody, and u will find the one that is meant for u eventually. Nobody ever said finding him was gonna be easy or painless though.
Hope this helped.
2006-09-27 07:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by scorpioangel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are pigs i must say. but you will eventually find the right guy who will treat you with respect.
they will realize how dumb they were for cheating on you and will probably want you back and i HOPE you will REFUSE!
don't look for the guy let them come to you! it will happen when you least expect it i promise you this! my bf and i have been dating for 3 years now and he's everything i've always wanted in a man..the best morals, very respectful, treats me the way i deserve to be treated. and we found each other when we LEAST expected it, it was a weird situation i tell you!
do NOT settle for a cheater. don't always date the "bad boys" because you will get hurt one way or the other!
also you need to treat them the way you want to be treated! don't give him everything he wants because he will take advantage of you TRUST ME. but dont be shy either. just be yourself. don't change who you are for some guy because down the road when your with him and you change back to being yourself he might just not agree with that! if you feel that he is committed to you then that is when you should start telling him how you feel. if you think he's just there for the goods..let him go quickly if you want a relationship to blossom. he should love you for your personality and NOT JUST your appearance..something you should think about also when you find a guy attractive. don't judge a book buy its cover..we all know that saying!
2006-09-27 07:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet that when you first meet these guys a little voice tells you something is not right with them and you ignore it. You probably say to yourself its too early to tell and I'm judging too quickly. A lot of us have that problem. Get better at listening to your gut because although its hard to listen to it never steers you wrong. If in the beginning you feel something is not right, walk and dont look back and dont second guess it. Its easier said than done so be vigilant about it.
2006-09-27 07:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're only his backup plan. If he cheats on the different lady he's with with you, then what makes you imagine he received't locate somebody else to cheat with in case you adult adult males start up relationship? All you're to him is someone to make out with or (in case you do different issues) someone to do different issues with. you want to comprehend you're not to any extent further an merchandise, and the way would you sense if he cheated on you with somebody else and she or he knew that he had a lady friend? it really is fairly crappy on your end. you'll locate someone, you're youthful. Get some shallowness about you, and also you'll do nice.
2016-11-24 22:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're attracted to the cheating type?? Try finding someone at a reputable place.... a singles meeting, church, or while volunteering somewhere. Definetly not a bar or night club!
2006-09-27 07:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could be choosing the wrong guy every time and also you could just be too easy so they feel like they can take advantage of you almost and idk how you deal with it when someone cheats on you but if other guys know that you didnt really do anything about it then again they feel like they can take advantage of you...just try to pick the right guy..he'll come
good luck!
2006-09-27 07:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly- I hate to say this, but go for the shy, dorky type. My b/f is sooooooooooo gentle and nice to me it's unbelievable! And I never thought I would date him because he was the dork in school, and I dated all the hot/bad guys. Basically...just dont go for all the hott ones!
2006-09-27 07:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you assume there is a commitment on the guys part, when there is none, or are you high maintenance, and they just give up. Look at the source
2006-09-27 07:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men treat you how you let them treat you. Don't want to be a door mat? Nobody does. Men like a challenge don't always give them what they want, if they leave because your not, they weren't going to stay anyway. Learn to love yourself with confidence you would be surprised.
2006-09-27 07:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋