and it wasnt because i cheated or anything, but im dealing with a lot of other things and i just wanted some time to myself so i can think and clear my head, i mean i was havin family issues, he was talking marriage, and a lot of other things..but now i really regret it and i miss him like crazy, im crying myself to a head ache, i mean im really hurting..but was killing me the most is that i guess i hurt him so bad that he said he dosent ever want a realtionship with me ever agian , and he dosent miss me like he used to.i didnt mean to hurt him , so what should i do to get over it?
2006-09-27 06:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by loveairy06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u are really meant to be with him, it will happen. but both of u have to be ready, and willing, to try again, at the same time. if he needs time, give it to him. sounds like u need time too. i know u miss him, but sometimes missing someone, being sad and lonely, begins to confuse you; how do u know that ur not just missing someone being there, and missing HIM and only HIM? it's hard to decipher, it's a thin line. which is why its So important to always work on Yourself. Your happiness, Your confidence, Your Health, Well being. once u are 100% happy, awesome, confident, wonderful woman, u are ready to offer something really great to someone else. and that person should also make sure he is 100% happy, awesome, confident, wonderful man, so that instead of trying to "fix" the problems of the other person, you can Lift each other up to become better, together. good luck, and make sure u are whole person so that u can give so much more to your partner. :)
2006-09-27 07:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by tarmee2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever run a red light or missed a Stop sign before? There's nothing you can do to take it back, and you just have to accept that you've broken the law. You just have to keep driving and make sure that you don't make that mistake again.
That's exactly what you have to do in this situation. Your ex-boyfriend's feelings are irreversible, unless he himself chooses to keep talking to you or maintain the feelings he used to have for you; all you can do is keep moving. The good news is, the worst part is over. It will still hurt for quite some time, but an encouraging note is that it's not gonna last forever. Just make sure you don't make the same mistake twice. Good luck.
2006-09-27 07:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to explain to him what was in your head at the time when you broke up with him, let him know you were going through a whole lot and you didn't want to take him there. He may understand or he may not but you did what you felt was right at the time, and he must understand that. He may not want to be with you right now because he is hurt, so give him time and he may come around, if not then you must learn to move on.
2006-09-27 07:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were going through some rough times and it sounds like rather than give you the space you needed to resolve those issues, he heaped more on you (marriage pressures). This is not a guy who was very sensitive to your needs. You need to find someone who will be supportive of you during good times AND bad. Maybe, just maybe, it's better that you found that out when you did.
2006-09-27 06:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yay! sounds like you've executed honestly the right project, reliable on you! Use this as an chance to go available and do belongings you've continuously needed to do yet couldn't once you've been courting that creep :) Afterall, existence is too short.
2016-12-02 04:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop crying! Stop talking about him, stop writing about him, stop replaying your old conversations with him, stop asking your friends about him, stop feeling sorry for yoursef, stop!
Second, get out of the house and start doing things. Get busy. Stop moping around thinking about him. DO something. Think about activities you like and start doing them. There must be 100 things you can do with your time. Do it, improve your life. Maybe if he sees an emotionally healthy, interesting, and active girl, he might see you differently and reconsider things. But you gotta stop all this moody-emotional-crybaby-waaa-waaa stuff. Now.
2006-09-27 07:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with friends, and go out and have a good time and of that doesnt help then talk to him and just discuss that u didnt mean to hurt him, and maybe it will work out!*
2006-09-27 06:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wish I could answer that, but kinda still in that boat myself
2006-09-27 06:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by NikkiJane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal. Just do something fun and busy.
2006-09-27 06:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your business first...if he really understands he will be back
2006-09-27 08:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋