this guy is bothering me. he broke up with me and i said some thing to him that i didnt mean, he took it to heart. i told him that i was really sorry and i was sincerilly and he was really cold hearted which i deservied. so what should i do to make him realize that i am truly sorry about it.
2006-09-27 06:50:13 · 15 answers · asked by hatton_chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you already apologized. Move on. He just is hurt hopefully he will learn to forgive.. Lesson learned for you. Never say hurtfull things. They have a way of bitting you in the rear later. Dont burn bridges
2006-09-27 06:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by sabbycat76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little while until he cools down and the sting of your words wears off a bit. Then apologize again - tell him calmly "When you broke up with me, I was so hurt that I said things to hurt you back; I didn't mean them and they are totally not true. I am are deeply sorry and you have every right to be upset with me. I have learned my lesson and will try not to lash out in anger again; I hope you can forgive me."
If he's still so angry he can't forgive you after that, there is nothing more you can do. Just promise yourself not to make the same mistake twice.
2006-09-27 14:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could send a card, reaffirming you apology, but keep in mind that he broke up with you. Sounds like the right time to back off & move on. That last card might help you feel better about how the relationship ended, but accept that it has ended, & move on. good luck =)
2006-09-27 13:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have tried everything....now it is time to move on. I understand that he isn't so what you are going to have to do is try to avoid him. since you two dated, you know where he hangs out and different places he likes to go, so you need to avoid those places till he can mature some and start leaving you alone. You made a mistake and have tried to apologize and make up for it...not too much more you can do than that.
Good Luck!!
2006-09-27 13:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIve it time. Men appreciate when women apologize after saying or doing something stupid. Most are too hardheaded to admit it. Just don't let it happen again.
2006-09-27 13:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's done is done. You hurt him, and forcing him to accept your apology ("make him realize") is actually you continuing to hurt him more because once again, it's all about what YOU want.
Actions speak louder than words. Respect his right to ignore you.
2006-09-27 13:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do now. What's done is done, in your case, what's said is said. If you really meant your apology, the only thing you can do, is wait for him to get over it.
2006-09-27 13:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already told him you're sorry. Let it lie.
2006-09-27 14:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing u already said your are sorry
let it be and his pride and ego will come down.
2006-09-27 13:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by besos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him and he still doesn't believe you. You don't need him I mean don't sweat him it isnt that serious.
2006-09-27 13:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Teeley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋