I love my gf so much. how do i keep that strong love goin ?

Answer 1

I'm going to answer this from the p.o.v of a guy that failed in a relationship. Because now I know what I should have done but cannot do. It breaks my heart that I cannot show the love I know now how to give. To keep the love strong you must make an emotional investment. You must know who you are, you must seek to know who the other person is, and you must be relatively independent and not completely reliant on the other person for all of your needs and wants. But you must be able to make compromises. You must sit down and discuss things regularly. Saying "we need to talk." is not what I mean. You must ask specific questions. How was your day. Would you rather do this or this? Hug your gf a few times a day. Kiss her when she least expects it. Don't give her any reason to even think you don't want to be with her. My ex was apparently so jealous she created in her mind an imaginary person 4 me to cheat on her with, because I went to the library but they were closed and went and ate out instead. She had already eaten so I didn't see the harm in me eating alone. But she drove by the library and saw I wasn't there. I told her I went and ate, but she was so set in her mind as to what she wanted to believe. I had left my cell at home so I didn't call her. I don't know she was that jealous So the point is that emotional connection and healthy communication and non-aggressive natures are essential. I just hope I don't die a lonely man. I miss my ex so much it hurts. Just take your time to give her the proper care she needs. However, you must be able to be trusted too. If she can't trust you, like mine didn't then it isn't good. BOTH partners must be able to trust each other. And BOTH partners need to be able to clearly indicate and communicate their feelings at all times respectfully. Don't spend money that you are supposed to be sharing on yourself. Just learn to love and appreciate the times you do have with each other, and make those grow, and when arguments start to flare up, YOU have to be the one to just STOP! and sit down and look your sweetheart in the eyes and say "I'm sorry, lets not argue like this. This doesn't even really matter, does it?"

Answer 2

If this is a relatively new relationship, your chances of feeling the same "strong" attraction a year from now are about zero. We are instinctively draw to certain people because of inherent biological motivators. We feel these very strong pulls and we call that feeling being "in love". That feeling ALWAYS goes away. Hopefully, you'll be attracted to her, or in other words "infatuated" with her long enough to really get to know her and if you're lucky you'll discover you have a lot in common and it is upon those commonalities where true respect and love can be built. Bottom line: if you expect to keep feeling those strong "in love" feelings you'll end up disappointed.

Answer 3

I guess you can't be too possessive, you still gotta give her some space even though you love her so much. Sometimes girls just need that, you can't be on their heels 24-7.

And by keeping the love going, you could like relive those places you've met her for the first date, pretty old school, but I reckon it's pretty sweet.

You can give her surprises, but not the usual flowers & chocolate, try something new!

Use your creative juices eh!

Good luck!

Answer 4

well love is ever lasting
but no one ever said it wont get boring
the fact is, is you can love someone so much and it will still get a little boring

so keep it spontaneous

tell that person you love them in new ways like sneak little love notes in places they wont expect it or bring her flowers to school or work so everyone can see it just because you felt like it
or have a day just for her

but if your love is startin to fizzle then maybe you should look into it and see if you both really love each other

good luck bud

Answer 5

All you have to do is keep making her happy. do things for her that she likes, such as taking her out for a ride or whatever. be nice to her and try not to change the way you are with her, because some men tend to change just when the realtionship is actually getting better. but just keep up the good work. congratulations you are so in love.

Answer 6

regrettably, his love for you isn't that ok because on the first position once you ask him about the outcomes that if his ex will be again from Utah and so on..and so on..., he would've opt for on the on the spot you and by no skill giving that "i do not understand" as an answer. extra ideal start up a funky off with him to enable him imagine first and each little thing about the undertaking because it really isn't any sturdy in any respect staying to a guy who acts like that.

Answer 7

You're so sweet. I wish all men had your desire. Find out her love language. Does she like compliments? Acts of Service? Touch (non-sexual)? Quality time together? Gifts? Everyone equates love in different ways, depending on what we experienced growing up. Ask her. Also, have intimate conversations, find out her passions, interests, fears, hopes.

Answer 8

Do some fun activities together, have fun, enjoy the moment!

Try different things, always ask her how she feels about it, girls need the guys to communicate to each other. Give her little presents she will love that. (flowers, cards, chocolate)

Answer 9

Take her to the planetarium and then go for gelato. walking is a good way to keep love strong.

Answer 10

grow together! and keep your individulality!
that simple
don't forget trust communication and passion!
sometimes you may have to do something differntly or word things differntly!
but do what your doing and don't forget the nice little secret notes in pockets!
Mad luv