She keeps on baiting me for relations with her, should I give in and oblige her or stand my ground and tell her to look else where...??? Please help
2006-09-27 06:35:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why go back when you can go forward and reach new heights of ecstacy with your new girlfriend (when you get one, anyway) lol xx
2006-09-27 08:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that solely depends on whether you are capable of having relations with her and not getting attached to her. I wouldn't suggest it. There is a reason that she is an "ex" and I would keep that in mind. Also, the only outcome if you do give into her is that one of you is going to be seriously hurt. If you are smart, you'll stand your ground and tell her to get lost.
2006-09-27 06:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should've thought about that before she dumped you. If after a while of looking for another bf, and none have been "her ideal", don't you think it's kind of "user" to just jump back to you because no one else satisfies her? Just tell her that you guys were once together, and now it's over. Also tell her that you're interested in friendship, but other than that, she can look elsewhere for another guy.
2006-09-27 06:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not in a relationship now, and you would like to have sex - just for the sake of having sex, I would do it. Actually, I would like to have sex with my ex. And he was the best I've ever had. So, I know how she feels. You are safe to her and she doesn't have to do the romance dance for your attention. So, go for it, it doesn't mean you are a couple again, and if your afraid of STD's were a condom. Good Luck!
2006-09-27 06:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good one! If I wasn't married, I'd use it.
Tell ya what....practice asking yourself that question in the mirror. When you can do it with a straight face, then ask the girlie that you really want to have "relations" with out to dinner.
Try it on her and see how impressed or unimpressed she is with your "struggle".
2006-09-27 06:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by j.bertie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK MY DEAR FRIEND, IT DOSEN'T MATTER IF SHE COMES TO U ALL THAT MATTERS IS THE SALVATION OF UR SOUL. TAKE A LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, U ARE NOT MARRIED NEITHER IS SHE AND BESIDES THE DEVIL USES EVERY MEANS AVAILABLE TO TRAP U. REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE LOTS OF SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES AND SO U ARE LIKELY TO BE CONTACTED IF CARE IS NOT TAKEN. BESIDES SHE DOES NOT KNOW THE HEALTH STATUES OF HER OTHER LOVERS. I ADVICE THAT U STICK TO UR ANSWER WHICH IS NO!!! FOR UR OWN SAFETY AND LOOK ELSE WHERE FOR A MODEST GIRL
2006-09-27 06:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind an EX is AN EX FOR A REASON!
2006-09-27 06:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... it depends. Are you that desperate for sex, and could you get it somewhere else? If you're gonna be f*ck-buddies it might be a difficult because feelings will probably get in the way... I would say - avoid!
2006-09-27 06:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Wes W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a self-esteem issue, pass on her. If you are self-assured and she was good and fun in bed, you have no other partners that you would need to consider, why not? Everybody needs a little something now and then and she's as good a partner as any...
2006-09-27 06:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give in... go in...
She's "baiting"... why not "fish" in the family pond... even if it belongs to the "ex"..... (look at it as "leasing" the spot)....
You need to keep your "stamina" up for Christmas!!!
2006-09-27 08:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL- that's so funny! "and she should know shes had a few" doesn't mean much to you, huh? Just use protection and make sure you don't catch anything from her. I'm sure it'll be meaningless to you both.
2006-09-27 06:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋