I have been asking myself and others around me lately if there are men out there who actually stay faithful in relationships....for the duration of the relationship. I guess I have just heard too many stories lately of men cheating on their significant others....even men that I would never ever expect....I know this might seem a little ridiculous but it has really consumed my thoughts lately. Plus since this has been on my mind, I have heard several other women mention the same thing (without me mentioning anything)...I just wonder if it is a reality that we all must come to understand at some point or if there are men out there who do not cheat....please go easy on me...I do realize how this sounds but I would love some good feedback....
2006-09-27 06:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dont rush into relationships, you shouldnt have that problem because there are people out there that will just take advantage of you, ya know, use that wonderful charm that some people have to satisfy what ever it is that they want out of you and then they move on, but if you take it slow, get to know them first and maybe they will be "the one that youve benn waiting for" maybe not but a relationship is something to treasure not abuse
2006-09-27 06:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fredrick D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men put there that dont cheat. I used to think like you, that most men cheat. I found my bf when I was 16 and he was 27 and because of all the talk of men cheating, I automatically assumed that he was like that. Then one day, we were having an argument and I said that he doesnt love me and that he never has and that he would cheat on me, he started crying. He said that he loves me more than anything, he would never cheat and he would give his life for me. 2 years on we are still together and still madly in love. So there are men out there that are caring and actually think about other peoples feelings, not just about sex.
Just carry o looking eventually you will meet Mr.Right and when you do, it will be the best feeling ever. You will know in your heart that he won't cheat. Just be positive, dont let all the talk get you down or start making you think the wrong things - in the long term, it wont be good for future relationships.
2006-09-27 13:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still have hope.
I am 46 and married and have never cheated on my wife or any girlfriend I ever had.
It's pretty sad how so many people have no loyalty.
I realize that people drift apart sometimes but they should have the balls to get a divorce or breakup before moving on.
Hang in there!
2006-09-27 13:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know if women share the same opinion but most of us would think that men cheat in general...meaning there is still exception to the rule...there are honest men who stays faithful to their significant others but i think faithfullness is relative to men...hehehe...kidding aside, i guess most of us women are used to meeting guys who have the cheating streak...but if you look closely to these flirting men, many of them just externalize there thoughts but they remain faithful to their significant others...i cannot say the same thing in terms of what they are thinking every minute because they are hopelessly polygamous, in terms of thoughts...also, ever wonder why women who find perfect guys to be married, the good ones? i guess the answer to that is: because they are good men...so, i think these men that we call as perfect and good ones are the ones who do not cheat on their partner...though they mostly project to be a womanizer...probably it comes with their partriarchal and machismo image...if you get what i mean...
2006-09-27 13:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably hear about the wrong guys or date the wrong guys. I know some guys who do stay faithful. My boyfriend being one so just don't listen to all you hear. I used to be just like you until i found one of the good guys. Just hang in there and get to know guys real good and his friends before you start anything too serious. Good luck!
2006-09-27 13:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see, men need to be encoraged. and one of the things that happends is,the wife expects complaments right? Well so the guy when he gos to work he is used to giving you compements so he might say somthing to a women at work, not to cheat just to be nice. And she wasn't expecting it so she is nice to him, and that's how cheating starts.
2006-09-27 13:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Isurehopeyouthinkimcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am man and have always been faithful through 23+ years of marriage. Maybe you are hanging out with the wrong guys.
2006-09-27 13:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are hun.....when the man finally falls in love and is tamed.....then the relationship.....steps up to a higher level and goes beyond sex....u will......one day.......with the right person.
The truth is.....when the man realizes that his own relationship is diluted because he cheated and therefore he stands to lose.......the lady has to be worth it ofcourse......then it stops automatically
2006-09-27 13:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a faithful guy I have never nor would I ever cheat on my girl.
2006-09-27 13:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋