It's a mystery why divorce rate is so high ...
2006-09-27 06:15:12 · 20 answers · asked by roy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of girls think that way which is sad because it is devalues the meaning of marriage. Marriage means nothing if you get divorced. Marriage is supposed to be a promise to god and your loved one not a temporary thing.
2006-09-27 06:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather not get married at all... If you can be with someone and know that the two of you love each other and want to be together forever what is a piece of paper going to change. Marriage is almost like a way to trap another person. I may be the only woman who feels this way but I wouldn't even bother. Plus the reason so many marriages fail is lack of communication and the mentality that marriage isn't a big deal. If you are going to choose to get married you should be with that person through everything no matter how hard you should work it out. People in this time have no back bone any more and quit when things seem to be to hard. Look at people in their 80's and 90's that got married, now they have been married for 60 years or more because divorce just wasn't an option back then. That's the way it should be now if you are going to get married.....
Okay sorry i had to get that off my chest.
2006-09-27 13:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not this girl! I would rather stay single than marry someone for the sake of having a wedding. Marriage takes alot of work and I only want to do it once. If a girl is thinking like that, run far and fast! There are too many bridezillas in the world, getting married so they can have a big fancy wedding. What happens the day after the wedding?
2006-09-27 13:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Angela N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not me. :p Forever still means something to some people. But I do think that divorce is an option in an abusive situation, especially if there was no abuse before they tied the knot. People should figure out if it's going to work BEFORE they get married, cause nothing gets better afterwards.
2006-09-27 13:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going to wait until I get married. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I want to make sure that we are totally compatible before we get married. I want to find all his faults now and not look through rose tinted glasses and think he is perfect, then marry him and decide it is all wrong and get divorced. I dont want to put myself or my boyfriend through the pain of a divorce. At the moment though it looks as if we will be married, and I want it to last forever!
2006-09-27 13:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it isnt a mystery,, Money problems are the number one reason for first divorces,, children the cause of the second marraige divorce, blended families like the Brady bunch dont work..
I dont think people think about their commitment when marrying, seem to run or look at other people,, easier to run than to talk and work out the problems,
2006-09-27 13:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well there are so many people out there who say i love u and dont mean it or they love the idea of being in love so they end up getting married to the wrong person and they they realize they have then they get divorced and then dont trust the opposite any more and that iswhy the rate of homosexuals and divorces
2006-09-27 13:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by shanie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's no mystery.
Stop blaming the women!
If you want the divorce rate to go down by at least 75% (FBI statistics) cure the problem of violent abuse in men.
There is real documentation on this.
Stop attacking the victim and start going after the perpetrator.
Almost every guy I date now, I have to dump very early on, because they start exhibiting signs of an abusive personality - also from official literature.
I refuse to EVER be an abused wife again.
Get a clue.
2006-09-27 13:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
True - its called lack of tolerence
also some time people are so shallow and afraid to get deeper emmotionally because of the fear that it might not work. But the truth is it doesnt work because of teh fact youa re shallow emmotionally
2006-09-27 13:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by SalsaGoof 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hopefully no one thinks that way.. because its horrible. divorce is not just an easy escape route.. though it is a wonderful alternative is the person that you married has changed and you are no longer happy in the relationship. people should go into the relationship with positive hopes.
2006-09-27 13:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by sarahnr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋