he has a girlfriend for 2 years but he was trying to have something with me last night we've kissed and he says that he's not regret of what has happend i don't know what to do.I feel very bad to know that he has a girlfriend but i really like to be with him...HELP
2006-09-27 06:02:17 · 14 answers · asked by pimpinela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever found yourself having dinner at a fancy restaurant? And the food there is just so delicious that you can't stop eating? How does that usually end up? You go home, and the next morning you wake up and you have a stomachache and it's unpleasant to deal with.
Kissing this guy might have been fun at that moment, but the reality is you're stealing another girl's opportunity to be happy with her boyfriend, and the consequences of helping him cheat on his boyfriend are gonna hurt you for much longer than the length that you kissed each other.
And besides, would you want another girl to do that with him if YOU were going out with him? We can't help who we have feelings for...but we can choose whether to act on those feelings or not. You should probably tell his girlfriend though. Or else it's gonna eat you up inside for the rest of your life. Honesty is the key. It may not always be the easiest path, but it's always the right path.
2006-09-27 06:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that maybe the kissing was something that just all of sudden happened, and it went a bit further than you expected for the both of you. If you know his gf then talk to her and find out if they are still in the romantic way, or ask yourself if the chance to be with him will turn out that he will kiss someone else while he is with you. You really have to open when it comes to relationships, and letting him know that you like him I think has already being established. If his gf is your friend is it worth the break up, and does your heart say that you can trust him if he is ever with you.
2006-09-27 13:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by BILLYBABES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should confront the boy and let him kno how u feel. Tell him that u dont feel right about him kissing you and him having a gurlfriend. if he doesnt respect how u feel then he must not be the person you thought he was. You should just let him go and find somebody better. Becuz if he did that to his gurlfriend, and u not say nuthin he mite break up wit his gurl to go wit chu but... he might do the same thing with another gurl and leave u.
2006-09-27 13:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Young Diamond Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really common sense. He has a girlfriend, let him go! No, it wont be easy because you like the guy, but if he doesnt even respect his girlfriend enough not to sneak around on her, how much more could he respect you?
2006-09-27 13:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Davis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will do that to his girl of 2 years. Imagine what he would do to his girl of 2 months!
2006-09-27 13:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maintain the relationship, but don't let it go too far until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. Make him choose.
2006-09-27 13:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was a kiss on the lips that he really meant.. His current girlfriend should leave him.
2006-09-27 13:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Abigail S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wait I know I know....I know what it means!!! It means he's a cheating sack of crap that will cheat on you also....he has no respect for his girl or you...he's just trying to get some poon...you know...a little stank on his hanglo....a little sumthin sumthin...cause thats really what he's all about.....your choice!!
2006-09-27 13:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT persue this! if he cheats on his girlfriend to be with you, you will always wonder whenever he is seeing a girl he's just friends with: "Is he cheating on me, too?"
2006-09-27 13:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chit P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he probably wants something "light" with you, without responsibilities, "from time to time".
Up to you...
2006-09-27 13:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Phil-IT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋