all the girls everywhere want him and all the guys want to be him... I am hot too but there are more hot girls than hot guys, so I dont stand out as much... Every girl comes up to me and says something like WOW ur boyfriend is the hottest... and it pisses me off!! cause even my friends uncounciously flirt with him and become nervous around him.... He is very loyal and respectful, and he ADORES me... but it makes me sick how all the girls are all over him... how can i get over this?
2006-09-27 05:58:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can find a new BF. One that nobody notices. I'll bet you will still be complaining, though, about THAT situation...
2006-09-27 06:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Heckel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you say he is loyal, it sounds like it still scares you that he could leave you at any time and get someone else. If that is the reason then you have nothing to worry about. This is just an insecurity that can easily be overcome. Just analyze your relationship with him. If the feelings are for real then it doesn't matter how many girls flirt with him. Enjoy this relationship. Don't suffer from it. Just so you know, guys really hate it when girls get jealous over everything (not saying you are, but he might take it that way). Of course if this bothers you too much talk to him. Ask him how he really feels about you. If you ask him out of the blue, it catches him off guard so that way he cannot come up with a scripted answer (anything that comes out of his mouth is sincere). If you find that he has truly deep feelings for you, no other girl would ever take him from you.
2006-09-27 06:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by agassi8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am in the same boat with you! I am 28 with a 3 year old son, and I have been with my man for about 10 months, he just turned 23. He is absolutely gorgeous...and believe me, everyone feels they have to let me know it, too. It makes me nervous because I wonder 'what if' all the time....what if a girl his age catches his eye, why would someone so young and so gorgeous want someone who has a child...he reassures all the time that with me and my son is where he wants to be, but I can't help feeling a bit insecure.
2006-09-27 06:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone had a project with my sexuality it truly is something i'd opt to understand early on with a purpose to work out if it truly is going to be a project in our courting or no longer. although the way I see it, that is not any longer about who you'll have an interest in, that is about your values. in case you do not cheat that is not any longer an project. in case you do then does it remember which sex you're with or no longer? in the same way, in case you're taking a ruin or end a courting with someone, what vast difference does it make who you word after them? per chance your boyfriend is afraid you may step out on him or go away him for a lady. If it truly is what it truly is, then it truly all comes all the way down to no matter if he trusts you. If he would not like it that you want women, then i'm no longer particular what to say to that. In my case, i do not cheat and that is all there is to it. So if a destiny bf or gf has a project with me with the flexibility to be grew to change into on by the different sex too, then they have a project. no matter if that is non secular morals or although, in the adventure that they truly don't like that about me, i don't believe of our courting ought to artwork.
2016-12-02 04:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to love yourself. You need to know that he is lucky to have you. Don't compare yourself to other girls. He is with you because he thinks your hot so start acting like the hottie that you are. Who cares if people tell you he's cute. Take it as a compliment instead of a threat.
2006-09-27 06:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by great dane fanatic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Somebody is really in love with herself : P
Your "HOT",he chose you,get over it. IF he leaves you itll be for somebody who isnt so hung up on themselves,tha you can live forever with the person who ADORES you the most :YOU!
2006-09-27 06:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will just have to learn to get used to it. Be proud that you have a hot boyfriend and everytime someone makes a comment about him being hot or flirts with him, smile and remind yourself that he is YOURS and he is faithful to you so there are no worries..
2006-09-27 06:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, all the girls can flirt with him but remind yourself that HE IS ALL YOURS. You should feel proud that your friends think he is hot. I don't think you would like it if they say your bf is ugly. Feel proud.
2006-09-27 06:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh Baby have no fears. It is you that I love and only you. I could not imagine being with anyone else. You are so adorable complimenting me they way you do
2006-09-27 06:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey newsflash! He's with you, wants you-let the crowd wish, do you guys talk about this? When your friends and others act that way, smile and be proud, he's probably proud he's with you too, you've got him, be happy
2006-09-27 06:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋