A few times when I've been doggie style, he almost "accidentaly" tried to put it in my rear. Not that I wont EVER do it, but I'm not ready for that yet. Honestly, the thought of it does not appeal to me. I am very big on pleasing my guy, and I like to try new things so I know it'll happen eventually. What should I expect, how will it feel, what are some tips, how should I prepare for it? Have you ever done it and what did you like /dislike about it?
2006-09-27 05:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have to be completely relaxed and lubed up. It will hurt when he first puts it in. My suggestion is to have him slowly put it in and just leave it there for a second before he starts to thrust. Once he is in and the pain is gone it will feel very good. So remember lots of lube and relax and take your time. The hole is not going anywhere 8)
2006-09-27 05:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus...I hear this one so much, it's almost pathetic to read! Tell him that it makes you nervous and he'll have to make damned sure you're relaxed and very, very turned on! Then, make him take his time using oodles of lubrication, and I don't mean spit or vaseline...I mean a water-based lubricant like KY jelly, Astroglide, or Vagisil Silk. You two need to communicate a lot more clearly than you apparently are now!!!
2006-09-27 05:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube up and go slow. Have him service you before so that you are very near happy ending. Tell him to place it there and to keep still and you will do the moving, slowly backing in to him at your pace. Both of you will love it like that.
2006-09-27 05:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to do it. It's gonna hurt the first few times you do it but then you kinda get use to the pain. I dont know why I liked it but I did! I havent done it in a couple of years though and I dont plan on doing it. It got old
2006-09-27 05:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you expect it to feel like? You have a cock going in your sphincter!!! I would reccomend lots of lube and vodka (not all in the same place)...and you might throw in a muscle relaxer! Haha....but really. It hurts, but they really seem to like it. Do not be scared of it......embrace it. Just remeber to drink a lot of alcohol!! Take care!
2006-09-27 05:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy it. Being relaxed, him entering slowly and having lots of lubrication are key. For me, it is always best after vaginal sex. It may hurt a bit at first but then it starts to feel SO good.
2006-09-27 05:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's up 2 U if U want it that way find out just let him do it then you'll know how it feels.Good Luck
2006-09-27 05:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that thing is tight as hell and every woman that I know likes it use lube and start small finger and you get on top that way you are in control of how fast and how much and let him watch your face as you put it in
2006-09-27 05:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him use his fingers on you first with LOTS OF LUBE.
Tell him to be **very gentle** and to go slow.
Don't use that stuff that is a pain killer. if it hurts so much that you're in pain then you're doing it wrong and should stop.
2006-09-27 05:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest.. talk to him about it. All men have this fantasy about sticking it in a female's rear.
2006-09-27 05:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋