u want 2 b protected and supported financially dont you??!
2006-09-27 05:40:53 · 27 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
............didn't wind ME up, Jarvy.... I can support YOU AND ME...
so I wouldn't need to "marry for money".....
But..... the way I see it.... (before I commit) and we share the financial responsibilities..........
"I'll have the rubber; but you have to have the plastic" !!! (lol)
2006-09-27 06:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many and most yes, yes your right. NOT everyone. Do you believe me? Not everyone. I could have opted more than once, more than twice to go that road but, all they had way money...no personality, no realnes...nothing to offer of them selves which has no price. I walk away from an comfortable finacial situation because I did not want to be in an uncomfortable loving situation. Now, resposability is attractive and that I do need as I am in return. Not everyone has had easy lives growing up or for what ever their reason did not get the chance to make the big bucks but, they are devoted to the ones they love and caring for them. That is more attractive and has much more attractive life long qualities than "A MAN WITH MONEY". Some men who are very wealty are too big headed anyway and do not want a good loving woman, they get to caught up in their own "I can buy what I want ",even a womans attention...that they forget who they are and what is real and true and loving. It goes both ways. Protected yes, supported yes...as your woman should do for you..of course finances are a part of life but being responsible should cover all of it.
2006-09-27 12:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by givemeprivacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong. Maybe some women do but most don't. If they do find a man who just happens to be minted as well then that is just an added bonus. Maybe rich men shouldn't try to buy women's affections. They don't even have to let on that they have money until they have sussed them out. Just a guess but have you by any chance been fleeced by a gold digger. If you have then I am sorry but not all women are the same.
2006-09-27 12:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Claire U.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure everyone wants financial stability, but that's not what I look for. Nobody wants to be with a dead beat or a mooch. It would be nice if he made as much as I do or, maybe a little more, but that's not my prerequisite. Most men are intimidated by a woman who makes more than he.
I want someone I can trust and someone to be my best friend. Someone that can't wait to come home at night to see me. So definitely not all women are looking for money. Too shallow for me.
2006-09-27 12:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by seeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sense yes... but thats not the no.1 thing a woman is after (she shouldn't be anyways)
I look for a man who knows who he is. He doesn't have to pretend to be one person around his friends and another in front of family. I look for a man who isn't afraid to fight for what he feels is right. I look for a man who can take care of himself, and who tries to help others too. I want a man who isn't afraid of manual labor. I want a man who also isn't afraid to talk about how he feels. I want a man who gets work done before play... I want a man who knows what manners are. I want a man who can watch a football game but still wants me there with him (not always, i know guys need guy time) I want a man who doesn't act like I'll brake by the slightest touch, he'll wrestle with me a little. I want a man who loves me in his big sweatshirt, my hair in a pony tail, without makeup.... I want a man who loves God and his family..... I want it all.... But i want true love first... and you know what if I was poor the rest of my life, but had the man i love, I really wouldn't be poor anymore! And id know we'd be ok because we have each other and we work hard and we'd have God to thank for everything... so I guess you are wrong by saying ALL look for money.. cuz Im a woman, but i do not feel that way, so you are at least 1 short of all woman... and im sure there are more out there like me!
2006-09-27 12:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no wish to sound like a prat, but iv been told on many occasions i am a good looking bloke, not a lot of money, don't have any luck with woman, but i would like to bet that would soon change if i won the lottery, off now to buy a ticket or ten.
2006-09-27 12:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by staff, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main thing that women look for is security, and that could cover financially as well as emotionally etc etc.
We are (on the whole) protected like this as we are growing up, and this kind of bears on how we feel as adults.
we want to feel safe - safe from being alone, safe from struggling, safe from being hurt in anyway possible.
Human nature.
2006-09-27 12:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I just want someone who has enough to hold his own!
Stuff being Miss Money Bags for bludgers and parasites who are with you for your money. Goes both ways don't you think?
- But then some men like to be the breadwinner so their naughty little sex slaves don't have enough money to run away.
2006-09-27 16:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by thespian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong...but most men to want to protect their women both spiritually/financially and other ways, too. That's the way men are supposed to be and women are to support, but our society has changed allot.
2006-09-27 12:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many are but those are the bleach blonde, fake-boob giggly ones that I can't stand anyway. Give me a confident, intelligent, worldly, sexy woman and I can guarantee you she's not looking for money. She can make her own and she will make a much better girlfriend, wife and lover.
2006-09-27 12:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont i can protect and financially look after myself if a man can make me laugh and make me feel special then money doesnt matter
2006-09-27 18:29:43 · answer #11 · answered by crazeymare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋