i'm s. & tired of being like this. how do i become unbreakable (i'm having a hard time dealing with inconsiderate creatures)
thanks
2006-09-27 05:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
(yes, but if you can't stay away from them)
2006-09-27 05:42:02 · update #1
You are that way because you choose to be or it is in your nature. You do it for you, not to please anybody else. Being inconsiderate is those people problems, not yours. Just let them be, you have a richer life being the way you are. Good luck.
2006-09-27 05:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to become unbreakable, stay sensitive and kind. Try to forgive all the people that hurt you and know that you are a better person and that your heart is good. Let your heart remain soft and gentle. It is a good thing.
With many warm and gentle smiles,
Rebecca
2006-09-27 12:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, yeah it's good to develop back-bone, but don't become so hard that you completely loose your gentleness - I mean those qualities are really good, and should be preserved as much as possibe.
Um, my best suggestion, is when people say hurtful things either try to imagine their point of view (maybe they've just always been taught differently, or their having a rotten day), or ask yourself if their opinion really matters to you.
I know it's hard, but good luck.
2006-09-27 12:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When humans mistreat others, they send real negative energies at them. You can deal with this by letting it flow through you,
like water.
You can also build a shield of protection by imagining a light
around you in your minds eye. Call on your Highest Power
for protection.
2006-09-27 12:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by zenbuddhamaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who are tolerant must be tolerant of those who are not. remember you are like everyone else trying to gain wisdom and knowledge. there is no one more important nor less important than you as each of us is unique and have our own quests to fulfill on this plane of existence before going to the next.
2006-09-27 12:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you are not like the ones who hurt you. Don't let them change you, but reserve your trust for those who earn it, and guard your heart with caution.
2006-09-27 12:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion... recognize that you are who you are. If you like who you are then enjoy the confidence of kowing yourself and your abilities. If you do not like who you are... change. As long as you are content with yourself others cannot harm you.
2006-09-27 12:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a xanax or have a few shots of liquor. Then don't hold back.
2006-09-27 12:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask to be made strong. work at it, you can over come this.
2006-09-27 12:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by littlecwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meditate: don't try to achieve anything and don't ask for anything.
2006-09-27 13:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋