arr man :( me and this girl were really close and i liked her alot and she just decided to blank me.She had done this to me before but we were closer this time, and it hurts but i dont want it to it feals like she is the only person which could make me happy ......
2006-09-27 05:36:49 · 26 answers · asked by Jack S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the answers (i carnt choose all of thm for best answers ) sorry
2006-09-27 05:57:50 · update #1
She isn't. It only seems that way, because fear, whose greatest field of battle is in the unknown, doesn't want you to realize she is only but one fish in a sea of women; with a countless number of woman that would make you even happier.
One thing you must realize is that she will never forget you, no matter how much she may wish to, or try to. You will always be a part of her history; something she cannot leave.
Therefore, think through all those fears you have; for if you do so, you will begin to realize that they really don't make any sense. She's the only one that can turn you on? She's the only one that can be a mate to you? She's the only one that will ever love you?
My friend, everything always happens for a good reason, even though we can't always understand what could be good about our circumstances at the time when skys are dark. The woman of your dreams is obviously not her... so go find that woman... she's out there waiting to be found, looking for you, as much as you are looking for her.
2006-09-27 05:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Jack, That's life man. It's how you handle things next that will make the difference. Quit thinking about this girl man. You said this is the second time things haven't worked out with this girl. Why was there ever even a second time? Don't be a pitiful wussy anymore. Be a man. Go on a date immediately. Not a rebound thing and not a new relationship thing. Get yourself a @#$#buddy. Even better get a couple of @#$# buddies. To be clear, you want a girl that you can sleep with but that's about it. Don't spend money on her and don't ever compliment her. Spend way more time with your guy friends and forget about having a "girlfriend" for awhile. Start listening to the Tom Leykis show on the radio. He will help you become a man and stop being a girly boy.
2006-09-27 05:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by great dane fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not much help at the moment but everyone has gone through this at one stage of their life. This does not mean what you are feeling is unimportant, but merely that you will get over it.
Love is a wonderful thing but can end tragically. Maybe this girl is not as caring as you are at her certain stage of life. Maybe you are a true romantic. Suffice to say that if you feel love this powerfully it will happen again with someone who can reciprocate the feeling back to you.
2006-09-27 05:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by b_b_best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you werent as close as you thought you were. Yes, it hurts when someone rejects you but it is a great growing process also and that is how you have to look at it. I have learned in my life that through adversity came great things - better things. So, trust me when I say you will find happiness with someone else. You just need to be open to it. Good luck!!
2006-09-27 05:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll heal!! She's NOT the only one who will make you happy...if she's done this to you in the past...she'll keep doing it...just be glad that you're able to get on with finding that one special person...I'm not saying dump her as a friend..but I wouldn't let it go beyond that kind of relationship again..she'll just do it again and again...and each time..it will hurt more!!!
2006-09-27 05:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you've had your heart ripped out and kicked around like a football dude!
She is definately not the only person to make you feel happy by a long way!
2006-09-27 05:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is prob not the right person for you. In my experience, if you quit looking for love, it just finds you. There are still a few good women in the world. You will find one that is right for you, and can make you happy as well. Move on. LOVE DOES NOT HURT!
2006-09-27 05:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Ask her why and be honest about how you feel. If she is still not interested... just remember that it is ok... She wasn't the one that was meant for you. Sooner or later you will find a girl that will respect you for who you are then there will be true love found.
2006-09-27 05:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Just being myself! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm...........no such thing as ONLY person who can make you happy..because if that was the case you wouldnt be so sad today.
Well try to forget her move on pleanty of fish in the sea and I am sure true love is waiting for you around the corner.:)
Take care and all the best..
2006-09-27 05:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by sunlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack there is nothing I could tell you that could help you with the pain... But you need to remember that you are better than that and you don't need girls like that. I know how does it feel because I been thru it before too. EFIL
2006-09-27 05:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋