ok to the girls, would you go out with a guy who you liked and everything but he is married, but he is only married for convenience (in other words the marriage is dead)? i am in this situation, im 25 married and want to go back on the dating scene. would a girl understand?
2006-09-27 05:34:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also if i am planning to leave her once i have found the right girl?
2006-09-27 05:37:36 · update #1
i think a lot of you are taking it the wrong way. me and my wife are not soul mates and thats what im looking for - a soulmate, not just an excuse for sex. but thanks alot for the input. much appreciated.
2006-09-27 05:50:53 · update #2
I would not date a married person for any reason. And under these circumstances, I would wonder why you would be looking for someone new without ending your current committment. Convenience, maybe. Sounds more like you're using her to me, or each other. How you end a relationship tells a girl a lot about you and how a relationship with you might end if that moment ever came.
2006-09-27 05:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gingerly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, ummm, i bypass to steer away from trashing you over your movements, yet i'm going to respond to your question. No, considering the different guy signed the start certificates, he's legally considered the daddy. Legally it extremely is greater significant who's modern-day for the start than the unquestionably paternity in those circumstances. unhappy, yet genuine. So whether the toddler is biologically yours, she would be in a position to't come when you, considering she had the different guy sign the start certificates. Is she threatening to return when you for toddler help or something or for a paternity attempt? She knew finished and nicely on the time of the start that it could have been you or him, so she made the alternative. Regardless particular it is karma, and that i only prefer to assert that in case you extremely do not prefer to lose your loved ones, then you extremely gets help on your psychological themes that led you to betray your spouse and relatives.
2016-10-01 10:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a girl with any morals will not understand. If the marriage is so dead, then get out of it. If you have some lame excuse for not getting out of it, then stop dating. You can't have it both ways.
2006-09-27 05:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect for your wife, no matter if you are happy or not, you should file for divorce immediately. To go look for a girl to replace her, while you are still with her, is incredibly selfish. Do this girl a favor and remove yourself from her life. Then do whatever you want to do.
2006-09-27 05:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If you are planning to leave her why not do it before dating again? It sounds like you just dont want to be alone.. stringing one girl along until you find the perfect girl? Thats not right.
2006-09-27 05:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no...i had heartbreaking experiences with men who already have girlfriends so for me no....
also in your case what your saying may be true howeve most men use that same excuse so they can have sex with other girls other than their wife so i dont think youll have many girls that understand...your gonna have to get divorced im afraid...
2006-09-27 05:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some don't she might think u can't commit and don't want you....or get a divorce and tell the girls that the divorce is coming through and it's final and explain to her why and what happened if she asks don't say...too long..she will think it's fishy and not want you b/c she may think u want new sex or w/e...
2006-09-27 05:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by M<3 J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about that one. Why don' t you leave her? Girls will do it they are crazy just like a guy will go out with a married woman.
2006-09-27 05:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only a fellow loser like yourself would think that is ok...so if you dig the desparate no self esteem type....go for it
2006-09-27 05:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by jkfickle 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sir...are an A$S!
2006-09-27 05:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋