I'M I HURTING MY BABY BY NOT LETTING HIM SEE HIS DAD AT THE AGE BECAUSE RIGHT NOW HE CAN CARE LESS ABOUT WHO HIS DADDY IS HIS 2 YEARS OLD. NOW WHEN HE TURN THE AGE OF 7-12 IT'S A DIFFERENCE.
2006-09-27 05:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by BABY25 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
How far away do you live from texas..I would tell his dad we could meet halfway that way you are there with your son. Or tell the dad if he wants to see him, he should come where you and the child live. The child is too young to be placed in a unfamiliar setting. You should give them space, but be near by if the child needs you seing as how the father hasnt seen him in 8 months..the child my barely remember him.
2006-09-27 05:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of the 1st precedence could be if the dad is traveling his son, no longer any incorrect way around. that's the dad's accountability to maintain the dating, no longer yours or a 2 12 months olds. A 2 12 months previous should not be grew to become over to somebody he does not additionally be attentive to, no count what the dating. If he does not be attentive to his dad, that isn't the toddler's fault, that's the dad's and he could paintings on that dating in the previous putting the toddler in a frightening situation with in certainty a stranger. to boot, he will think of you have abandoned him with the aid of fact he's all you be attentive to, and it is your accountability to make him experience take care of. i does no longer even enable my little ones bypass to daycare or a babysitter they did no longer be attentive to. i'm hoping by ability of the time your toddler is 7-12, the dad will make extra of an attempt so they do be attentive to who he's. Make this the dad's accountability.
2016-10-18 01:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should. I had my kid meet her dad when she was 2 and she forgot when she was 3 and couldnt care less after that, he was just a guy and it was silly to try and make a relationship.
If he wants to see his kid let him visit you, or like you mentioned just wait. a 2 year old being in a place where they dont know anyone isnt a healthy idea.
2006-09-27 05:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by desi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really scared about this one......Dont let him go by himself to see him thats for sure. why cant the dad come see you (to see the baby) if he hasnt had that much contact I would be really worried about how well he can manage to take care of your child. Also make the decition based on how he was in your relationship if he was good to you then he should be good to the child but if he treated you poorly then I wouldnt let him go at all.
2006-09-27 05:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by heathersasmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, his dad can bring his butt to where you are to see his son. He's just a baby. Let dad put in the effort to see the son he created
2006-09-27 05:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let him go by himself Thats very scary. If his dad wants to see him then I would tell him to come where you are. I don't think it really matters at this age. Plus if its been that long, he probably won't even know him.
2006-10-01 04:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by catccrockins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 2, I would say that is to far to go, unless you or another relative can go with him. Why does his dad live so far away? Did you move, did he move, or did you all already live that far apart? If he chose to move that far away, HE should be coming to visit instead of you sending him.
2006-09-27 05:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him go alone. find a way so that you can be there too. his father is important no matter what age he is , he needs to know his father !
2006-09-27 08:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-27 06:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-27 05:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋