Should I ask her about it? I dont know why I get this feeling I have never mis-trusted her before but lately I just get the feeling she is possibly sleeping with someone else. How should I ask her about it? I dont want to ask her and have it ruin the relationship.
2006-09-27 05:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by answers360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you quit being a man ho and sleeping with people you aren't married to, this wouldn't happen to you. The term 'infidelity' when defined means to have sex with someone with whom you are not married. So you in fact are cheating. You set the stage for her behavior. If you had a higher moral code you wouldn't be sleeping with folks who sleep with folks that they aren't married to. How can you judge her when you sir, are doing the same thing?
2006-09-27 05:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just hold out..you are right about ruining the trust issue. Just keep a watch on the things she does. Maybe it's just you feeling a little insecure. You don't want your insecurities to ruin something that might be really good for you.Good luck! Don't have her guilty before you know any truth....
2006-09-27 05:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel something like this, you should act accordingly. I have felt this before, when I trusted a partner, and I was completely right on. You just "know" when something is not right. If there is absolutely nothing going on with her, she'll tell you and you'll believe it. It's all in the eyes and in the tone of the voice. You know her best, right. Don't lose your sanity from over thinking this.
2006-09-27 05:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT start assuming stuff and asking her about it!!! that will show you dont trust her and all that. only confront here when you have some hard core evidence and even then do it calmly. maybe she just seems distant. some girls go throught that phase. take her out this weekend have a romantic night out dinner and what not and if possble take her back to your house or hers and do it. dont push it thought just treat her like a princess. because she is. just let her know that she is special. and if she is cheating on you then maybe you can work it out if not then there is someone out there better for you!! good luck!!
2006-09-27 05:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by anioheveteric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one here really knows how you should ask her as we dont really know her
some girls take offence and have pyschos but others dont
ask her but try not to make it sound lik your obsessed that she is coz that will make her annoyed if shes actually not.
maybe just sit down and take time to say how you feel and tell her everything you told us about not ruining the relationship by asking and all because then she will understand, your a really nice guy and lets hope she isnt cheating on you.
good luck =)
2006-09-27 05:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, you should be completely sure of your concerns. If she's acting differently, spending less time with you, you know just not the same as usual. I would then sit her down, tell her how much you love her and want to express some concerns. Just be honest, but do it without accusing her and without temper or additude. Good luck.
2006-09-27 05:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus tell her you feel like something isnt right in the relationship.. if you secretly dont trust her its going to start to effect your relationship... You need to ask her for your sake, and hers if you want this thing to work
2006-09-27 05:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions will NOT RUIN a relationship! But ACCUSING WILL!!! Don't accuse her unless you have all the facts. You guys really need to have a heart to heart.
2006-09-27 05:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she would ever cheat on you,if she avoid the question or takes long to answer she is.Have you ever wounder if you mind is just playing games with you. If she's cheating dump her.
2006-09-27 05:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong if you tell her what you really feel.. if she tells you that she's not seeing anyone, trust her. just ask her why she's acting strange lately.. you just have to have a heart to heart talk with her...
2006-09-27 05:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by broken` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋