2006-09-27 05:22:52 · 31 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am more worried about your child, richard e grant
2006-09-27 05:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you think and feel that Sarah is it! The sun the moon the stars...she's not It's sounds like you're obsessed with her.... the fact that you would deny your life if she wasn't in your life clearly tells me that you are not your own person. That's pretty sad when the fact is Sarah would carry on with out you in a heart beat...How ever did you exist before Sarah was in your life??? Too bad you can't see reality--- if Sarah is out of your life for what ever reason there maybe someone down the road that can knock your socks off....Has Sarah convinced you that you are nothing without her???Or did you dream this up on your own??? Life my friend is a self fulfilling prophecy ! Are you going to continue to sing the blues....My life is nothing without Sarah...Sarah...sarah or are you going to be thankful she was in your life and move on to the next opportunity that can enhance your life? Sing the blues??? Or move on???
2006-09-27 12:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing first...DON'T DO ANYTHING TODAY!!!!!
and repeat that to yourself every morning..."I will not do anything today" Now, get yourself to a safe place and talk to someone...a friend, a parent, a priest, a doctor, or the suicide hot line...
I have survived the death of my husband when I was only 26. thought we would be together forever...afterwards I was very depressed and suicidal...I was lucky to have friends that just "happened" to stop by..a lot, made me go out with them...to the store, the library, whatever,,,just kept me company and got me reinvolved in day to day life. Breaking up with someone you saw yourself with forever is traumatic no matter how it happens...so don't be alone if possible,,,go to the store,or the library, just somewhere you will interact with people,,,a bit at a time, till you feel like you can get through your day without thinking of harming yourself.As hard as it may be to believe, time will make this easier to take...talk to someone..and hang in there.
2006-09-27 13:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by arosehasthornns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, life goes on and you will be able to be happy again. We don't know how you lost Sarah but your dying is not the answer. If you are saying that you are contemplating suicide, please think about how much you will hurt the people who love YOU. Do you really want them to hurt worse than you are hurting now? Taking their own life is the most selfish and hurtful thing a person can do.
Have you ever heard the saying/song "Thank God for unanswered prayers"? You don't know what life holds in store for you and you won't find out if you check out early. Please talk to a counselor. Your life is out there and waiting for you.
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
2006-09-27 12:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just madness! please dont do anything silly. Life moves on and people change as do their feelings. Do you honestly think your the only person on the face of the earth that has felt this pain? NO your not so grow up and move on, it wasnt right, you'll meet someone else who is right for you and then you'll look back and feel like a bloody idiot for ever letting this enter your mind. It is the cowards way out and it solves nothing. It only leave a whole lotta heart ache and misery for your family and genuine friends
2006-09-27 12:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by star28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is much more than a single person..U might feel u r the only one with so much problem, so much hurt and pain.. but imagine thousands of little children who wish to live but die each moment from hunger, poverty, disease..
If u truly loved her try to channelize that love to those suffering much worse than u. U will not smile but it counts to bring a smile to a face.
Love is not about oneself.. Dont u remember the time when all world seemed beautiful because u loved.. With ur death u will simply kill that love..
2006-09-27 12:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is not your answer.if you have children think of the lose and the hurt you will be doing to them. their will be a better Sarah out their then her for get her and move on
2006-09-27 12:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that now, then when you least expect it someone will show you interest and before you know where you are it will be sarah... sarha who?, iv just finished with someone she was 2 timing me for about 2 years, i had only just been dumped myself by my wife of 14 years. so keep your chin up, and good luck mate.
2006-09-27 13:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by staff, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older and married - you'll regret even having gotten where you are and miss the social life you once enjoyed. Believe me I felt like that once and lost that person. But I moved on because life's too precious. Now that I'm married, having those memories keep me going because I didn't marry for love.
2006-09-27 12:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no don't do that. it may seem very hard the first few weeks, maybe even months but the worst thing u can do now is lock yourself up and stuff like that. it's like a bad flu that has you in bed for days, you can't imagine that you'll ever get up and well again, but you will. trust me. good luck
2006-09-27 12:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by reby2791 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you are a fool. Life without the one we love is not easy but to welcome death instead just shows that you don't respect that love enough to keep it alive.
2006-09-27 12:29:12 · answer #11 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋