i know she dont want me but it hurts so much and bollox to them that say (just get over it) because i seriously would rather have no life than an empty life without her yes suicide
2006-09-27 05:20:50 · 27 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Richard, time will help heal you and never say never. You don't know what the future holds. I'm glad to see you are okay for now.
2006-09-27 05:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor Richard. You are really having a hard time of it. It may re-assure you to know that there is hardly a person on this earth, that has not been hurt by LOVE but the majority of people overcome the hurt in the end.
If you loved this girl that much, the last thing in your mind would be to hurt her. By doing harm to yourself, you would leave her to live a life of guilt,
We have all told you that Time is a Great Healer ~~ you never ever forget but the hurt does eventually go away and in your case, when you find happiness with the person who needs you, as much as you need them, you will laugh about all of this.
2006-09-27 06:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Greatgrandmother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone about how you are feeling! You are hurt, deeply, right now, but ending your life is never the answer!!
Love is a very powerful emotion! When things don't work out it can feel like your heart has been ripped out of your chest. Right now you cannot imagine your life without her, and it will be hard for awhile, but eventually time will heal your broken heart.
I don't know how old you are, I can only guess that you are a teenager. Your first love is ALWAYS the hardest to get over, but trust me when I tell you, you will get over it! Try to find something else to focus your mind on. Hang out with your friends more. Try not to isolate yourself and dwell on it. Talk to your parents, or another adult that you can trust.
Everything will be OK. It just takes time to heal! Be strong! Good luck!
Update: Thank you for letting me know your age, but my answer still applies. You need to talk to someone about how you are feeling. Thoughts of suicide is a sign of a deeper issue. Please address it! Best of luck to you!
2006-09-27 05:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prat, i assume Sarah reads these answers and you are hoping she will see your patheticness without her, change her mind and declare her undying love for you. WRONG, she'll see a sad attention seeking weak pitiful man and thank her lucky stars she's rid of you. Have some self respect and pull yourself together. There are plenty of people out there who know what real grief is, they lose people to cancer, children, husbands, wives, parents. Grow up you silly little man. If you want to kill yourself then go ahead as you are not worthy to breathe the same air as some of the brave people who have to deal with real, life changing grief you selfish waste of space.
2006-09-27 05:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by waspy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her that much..respect that she doesn't want to be with you. Ok..say she agreed to be with you..but she was never really happy because she did it just to make you happy. Theres not much else that you can do. Isn't there room for friendship..I'd love to have a guy friend that cared about me that much. You just have to know when enough is enough. Suicide is just not answer to anything. So get that thought out of your head!
2006-09-27 05:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same about my g/f and im still with her just dont kill your self. It will get better you have to fill your mind with other thoughts do something to take your mind off her. I find throwing my self into my work really helps.
Remember girls dont like boys girls like cars and money.
So make loads of money. Dont get mad get even, I find that if i have been trated badly by my g/f I go out on the pull to get back at her I dont sleep with the other girls but it does make me feel better.
2006-09-27 05:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are PATHETIC ... you seriously dont love your self.... why are you putting up with this crap... look at the situation ..... 1. she doesn't want to be with you. 2. why do you want to be with someone who doesn't love you back.... WHY?? 3. she is probably with some other guy. 4. she doesn't care about hurting your feelings.... so why should you care about her.. come on man grow some BALLS... and stop putting up with this crap girls do to us.... i've also been PATHETIC once in my life but i've never try to kill my self.... sounds to me you should get help. you are probably very young.. and thats why you dont know what life holds for you....what you should be worrying about is to be successful and make something out of your life... before you put some B**CH first.... you are learning the hard way.... my advice to you is accomplish your dreams ... and remember this.. some girls are dream killers.... after you accomplish your dream then have a girlfirend.... not sooner....dont be PATHETIC... grow some balls and keep your head up high... never, never, never... bow down to some b*tch...that doesnt want to be with you.... (listen to Tom Lykes... www.blowmeuptom.com) its a radio show...you can stream it on-line.... or listen to in the radio depending where you live.... dont kill your self man... its not worht it ... not for some b*tch....
2006-09-27 06:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by henry_o01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loom i have been in your shoes and i know how your feeling and yes it takes a bloody long time for your heart to heal, but belive me IT DOES!!! Just remove yourself from everything that reminds you of her, Throw away anything she got you anything that she left at your house. Completly de-sarah yourself. dont call her and text her, have no contact, cut all ties. Give yourself a few months and belive me the pain fades. She isnt worth all this.
2006-09-27 05:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by star28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide is not the answer. trust me i have been there it does get better. if you guys broke up it just wasnt ment to be and that someone (i no you dont want to think about this and probablly disagree with me on this) better will come along trust me. i think everything happens for a reason and you guys breaking up just gives the new girl the one your supposed to spend you life with to come into you life. just give it time. you will get over it. it just wasnt ment to be. cuz if it was you wouldnt have broken up. there is someone better for you out there! im sure of it!!!
2006-09-27 05:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by anioheveteric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what you call love. Enjoy the pain. It will go away in time. Life isn't fair but heck - you can always find someone new to fall in love with. You have to close this chapter of your love life and get it over and done with. Life's too precious and too valuable to lose over one girl.
2006-09-27 05:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its not much in the way of help, but she might fall head over heals with some one else, then one day gets dumped, it happens to us all unfortunately, we live in sometimes seemingly a very cruel world. don't give up, you still have the rest of your life and think of the many good things that can happen, be positive, good luck mate. oh and cross your fingers that i might meet someone worthy of me. i wish you the best of luck for your future.
2006-09-27 06:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by staff, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋