i fell in love with my neighbour and he liked my best friend and my best friend liked him too but they both did not know that. so knowing that tey like each other i set them up and now my best friend moved out and broke up with my neighbour and now my neighbor is angry at her for such a short relationship(11 days). and calls her a ***** and now it makes me wonder if i should have done it or not. ( i still love him)
2006-09-27 05:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by sweety sharma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course. but she moved in with him in that short of time? you did the right thing. but just be there for him if you like him. i mean friends come and go and i mean your friend will get over it if they are a real friend. and it seems like she broke up with him and in my opinion thats fair game. if you like him just be there for him. hang out with him. and maybe do some flirting and stuff. just dont push it right now. hey i think this gives you a chance to move in and show him your there for him.. and it might give you a chance.
2006-09-27 05:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by anioheveteric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't to know that it wouldn't last. You were doing the right thing as you could have been selfish and ignored the way they were both feeling at that time.
The best way for you to get in there is to be supportive to him, listen to him and be there for him as a friend...let youself be a shoulder to cry on for him then hopefully in no time at all, he will realise what a sweet and caring person you are and he will grow to love you.
But make sure you say to him first something like, "I am so sorry things went badly, I feel responsible because if I had known this was going to happen...." at that point he should say something like "its not your fault its hers" then you can get talking and he will lean on you. Make sure you are there for him and DON'T mess him around else he'll be gunning for you!!!
P.S. Forget the rule where your not meant to date your friends exes as you saw him first and you weren't gonna be selfish.
Sorry to ramble on lol but I hope it helps :D
2006-09-27 12:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They liked each other. Whether you set them up or not they would have probably gotten together, and suffered the same disappointment. Don't sweat it.
2006-09-27 12:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you gave it a shot and didn't work. Nothing to fret over. Tell your neighbor your feelings, you might be surprised.
2006-09-27 12:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by mindrizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you did anything wrong. All you did was piont them in a direction. They walked down the path.
2006-09-27 12:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Skiball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did a very good thing. Give yourself a pat on the back.
2006-09-27 12:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one you're the girl next door your day will prolly come and two prolly if it was ment to be they would have moved on each other
2006-09-27 12:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you couldn't have know, but now you know that that's a reality, so it 's up to you if you do it next time (I would go you with him, the friend code says no)
2006-09-27 12:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have just stayed out of it!! lol He will get over it.
2006-09-27 12:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him and wtg for letting them try it
2006-09-27 12:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by wolfwi4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋