and even started ring shopping-he lives in TN, i'm in NY-so obviously it is hard to get together though we talk and im daily-he's very sweet and respectful-i noticed he's not into giving little trinklets as tokens of expressing his love/adoration, not that that's key but he hasn't really given me anything-he's got a taboo for flowers coz he swears that they bring him bad luck-i don't think he's being stingy-but it would be nice to get something from someone-i've given him 2 wristlets for him to wear, and my ring that he wears around his neck-any suggestions? or is that as we get older, we splurge less on the significant other? he's 34-just wondering if this is "normal" thanks in advance!
2006-09-27 05:17:21 · 1 answers · asked by ria k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may not be the normal thing, but that depends on who you ask. people have different ideas about things. Sometimes it has to do with how one is brought up. Have you talked about these things, that will be a start. And you can also tell him what you like, and what makes you happy, say on valentines say I love to get roses, and chocolates. see what he has to say about that. Don"t even think of settling down with this man, and you don"t know where he is coming from. you need to communicate with him.
2006-09-27 05:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋