for the last time to the love of your life? Happy? Sad? Relieved? Genuine answers will be greatly appreciated...
2006-09-27 05:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i completely ignored it when it happened becuz it happened very abruptly and bitter.
i buried myself in work and kept pushing it away..until...nature took its course and i brokedown in the middle of an exam!!
we love (present tense) each other still but can't be together becuz of personal reasons.
i still see him often because he lives near me and he just happens to be in places that i happen to be. quite a few times we tried to start things up again. he wants me to take him back but there's too much pain associated with him. in order to forget him i had a few relationships and made an effort to make them all serious and long relationships (2 year, 6 months etc), but unfortunately i realised that i never had the same chemistry (emotionally and physically) with anyone.
finally, 1 month ago, we ran into each other at a parking lot- it was so hard to look at him. there was a deafening silence! but that was the only occasion where i felt like i had the word to describe how i felt- i looked at him and told him to never treat anyone the way he treated me at the end of our relationship.
so, what DID i feel when i finally said goodbye - i felt disappointed! disappointed becuz i still loved him and disappointed becuz i didnt get any closure. i also felt ashamed that i still wanted him back.
since that day he's been calling me everyday!
2006-09-27 06:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by hunny_kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I said Good Bye to my Ex husband I was relieved because a bad chapter in my life was coming to an end at the same time sad because I had worked hard and given years of my life to a relationship that did not work out.Hmm he wasnt the love of my life.
When the love my life and I said Good Bye I felt sad and broken as they say better to have lost in love than to have never loved at all.:)
2006-09-27 12:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by sunlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. if you are sad to say goodbye is maybe have too much good memories or you love the person so much. On the other hand, if you feel good or happy, maybe this is a good new start for you to forget those bad things.
2006-09-27 12:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was upset and determined not to let him see how much he meant to me and how much he hurt me. Of course I was really hurt because we were engaged but It taken me 3months to get over the fact that I did love him and I still did.
I wanted the worst thing possible to happen to him and for him to experience the amount of pain that I was feeling yet at the same time I didn't because I didn't want to hurt him. Yes I did cry when we split but only after I was out of his sight as I didn't want him to see me vulnerable as he never had done before.
I still do to this day and I would get back with him as he is the only guy I have ever truely loved and I think I ever will.
2006-09-27 12:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad though I was relieved because I knew he was using me and he was an a**hole. . . but for some reason I wanted to make it work but now there is only one person for me and this will last for a long time.
2006-09-27 12:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, i was very sad.. i was going away.. and my first love was in second grade.. and we had planed our whole life together!! but i had to go away from him to get adopted.. and i wouldn't be living near him anymore... We both cried and he gave me some roses.. and some trolls cuz i collected them.. actually, i still have the one that he got me... but the roses i dried and lost along the way... but i have a picture of him.. and still think of him till this day... and that day that we had to leave each other... it was a precious moments moment... awwww....
2006-09-27 12:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relieved...it was going nowhere and we both knew it. But, I will always remember her and love her till the day I die; and no matter who gets her after, he'll have one helluva mountain to scale to top the things we did!!!
2006-09-27 12:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was sooo hurt and confused..i wondered why though and i still really don't understand why i didn't cry to his face why i cried for a couple dayz..everytime i heard a sad song i balled and i didn't really eat..and i was juss so hurt sometimes i see him with some other girl smiling and i turn my head walk away and cry a lil bit....and think about what could've been
2006-09-27 13:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by M<3 J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a part of me was dieing
2006-09-27 12:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly depends whether or not the relationship ended on purpose, if it ended badly, or great.
2006-09-27 12:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋