Now Iknow this is somewhat immiture, but please help me out on this. I'm sixteen, almost seventeen and I've never had a Boy Friend. Ive never even kissed a guy.(this sounds conceted, but) I'm not ugly. I'm not average. Blonde hair, blue eyes, and I'm a normal size (5 or 7). What the hell is wrong with me? and am I wierd? like, should I have had my 1st kiss by now? Thanks for reading this, any feedback would be fabulous.
2006-09-27 04:58:45 · 30 answers · asked by Blonde ambition 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop looking for it, it will come to you when you least expect it.
2006-09-27 05:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times the most attractive women have the most difficult time in life, trying to find a guy that is interested in them for more than just their body and/or good looks. An average guy feels that he cannot compete with all the really great looking guys, and is thus more likely to simply not even try; least he probably [in his mind, at least] be shot down, and embarrassed.
Thus an attractive woman needs to be a bit more forward, and make the first moves, if she hopes to ease the fear of you shooting them down. You might have to actually be the one to ask a guy out, before he'll realize you would even consider going out with him; let alone that you would do so!
2006-09-27 05:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't weird. I don't know why there's this silly thing about kissing someone at the age of 16. You still have a lot of life ahead of you to be able to kiss... and kiss... I am sure someday you will.. What may be happening is that you are so stunningly pretty that the guys might be nervous about asking you out. Don't worry about it.. Take it as a compliment.. They think you are so great that they don't think they have a chance with you. As this may actually make it harder for you to get asked out.. you have your choosing of them all! Check them out yourself and when you find the sweet, cute, nice one with a great personality and you think you might like to talk to him a bit and find out a little more about him.. flash him your pretty eyes and a sweet smile and he is bound to get the courage to come talk to you.
Have fun!!! and don't worry about it! There is never a time limit on this sort of thing.. take your time.. never let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want... and good luck!
2006-09-27 05:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by River 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you outgoing and friendly? Or are you distant and shy? It really doesn't have anything to do with looks or size.... as we all know there are some freakin ugly fat a** chicks out there that are 16 and on there 2nd kid..... so I would venture to say they are doin a little more than kissing...
Some boys may be intimidated by you, they may think you are to good, perfect, taken, etc. Try opening up more, talkative, approachable, fun.
Don't rush it... The right one will come along soon.
2006-09-27 05:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie dont be in a rush. when the time is right you will find someone ok. about the kiss thing dont rush it either. you are still young and you will find someone and then you will have all the kisses. i know it's feel weird to see another girls with guys and kissing but think about it this way. there is someone out there for you and you will find them. anyway and no it's not immiture. anyway good luck and remember what i said you will find someone. he out there somewhere.
2006-09-27 05:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right time for a 1st kiss. Most people do happen to have it before they are 17 but it is not uncommon for it to not have occured by now. Just wait for the right guy and make yourself open for it
2006-09-27 05:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it-- but definitely don't give it up for no reason at all... i didn't get my first kiss till 1 week before i turned 16-- and i had a ton of friends that had already been having sex for 2 years... and i didn't get my first real boyfriend till i was 18--and since then i've had 3 others... in a year!! i promise it's not that big of a deal, there's a guy out there looking for you, he just hasn't found you yet! good luck
2006-09-27 05:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you...just the guys...don't worry about it because if you do you'll be wishing that you hadn't...especially when youre sitting at home with your baby and your friends are out having a good time...(this is what my mom told me when i was your age-i never had a boyfriend and never been kissed at sixteen either). but i turned out okay and i am the happiest girl in the whole world...
2006-09-27 05:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by undercover_cosmotelogist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are deluding yourself about the looks and you may well be a pig to look at. Or it could be a hygiene issue or finally you give out signals like you are not going to come across with the goods. Any girl prepared to shag and suck and do anal who is not dating is either deformed or stinks. and that is why there is Darkness and Nose Clips
2006-09-27 05:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to make the first move. When I went to my prom i was the one who asked the guy I went with. Try just striking up a conversation about something he's interested in, and see what happens!
2006-09-27 16:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by gafpromise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey....don't feel bad about yourself, please. "It's not you, it's them." I am 19 and have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed and am still a virgin. It's not something to feel bad about. In fact I am very proud of the fact that I am still completely "pure" and my peers gave it up by age 16 and go through boyfriends like water. Just try and be patient. "Someday your prince will come."
2006-09-27 05:06:42 · answer #11 · answered by paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋