There is this party thrown every year,the host is a friend of my ex.I caught my ex of a few years cheating on me so it has been a messy breakup.My brother is also friends with the host(my brother and ex are best friends)I am over and done with my ex,everyone knows that,although my ex is still trying to get me back.So whenever we are around eachother he freaks out,so therefor I was originally not invited to the party(since they are his friends)but now I am invited.The only reason I want to go is because there is this guy who might be there that comforted me one night when I was still bitter about catching my ex.He had a lot of respect for me and the last time I saw him he came to me and said"your killing me".I was told from a mutual friend he likes me but is freaked about my ex.I have not seen him in about 5 months.I want to go to the party in hopes of talking to him again,but im afraid I might start drama by showing up,would you go?
2006-09-27 04:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd definitely go, the ball is in your court since the ex wants back with you. Talk to the other guy, get to know him and ask for a date sometime alone. If the ex gets mad at you at the party, then explain to him that its over and you just went to have a good time. I want no trouble and if he still has a problem, give the other kid your phone number and leave.
2006-09-27 05:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by daveypa22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think I would go if I thought that my showing would start drama. Is there a way you can call the guy instead? Maybe you and him can go out that night somewhere else?? Good luck.
2006-09-27 12:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO you can't have an ex dictate your life.he has to learn to move on and seeing that you have well help that.
2006-09-27 12:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do.
2006-09-27 12:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋