If you were to date, have or are dating someone who is married do you believe they deserve the same special things like honesty, respect, trust, material things, attention like single people?
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2006-09-27 04:55:39 · 22 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my answer - do as you like. it is your pleasure.
2006-09-27 04:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that married person has to practice what you preach to deserve any of those things. I don't care what the circumstances are for them still being legally married; if they are on the dating scene, they don't deserve the time of day- for that matter. If they really were honest, respectful, trust-worthy, gift-worthy, and attention-worthy to the person they were dating, they wouldn't be MARRIED to someone else! That is like eating a stranger's left-overs. Disgusting. You're being played like a puppet so he can have somewhere to escape the problems in his marriage, rather than for him to step up and resolve the situation himself! I think any woman in her right mind deserves more of a man. What if you kiss his lips only to smell his wife's feminine scent? YUCK! Can you be 100% sure that he isn't sleeping with both of you? Could you date a cheater and feel confident that he won't do the same thing to you when there are problems in your relationship? Come on. You have common sense. Use it.
2006-09-27 12:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is laying to there better half so there goes the honesty and trust thing!! Respect, he/she made a promise to someone, not just a promise... and he is breaking it so there goes the respect! I know that people fall in love with people they shouldn't but think about his or her kids(if they have them!) and the damage u are causing! i know!! so please tell him or her to go home and fight for there marraige or if they dont want too to end it because it isnt fair to the other person!!!
We should wake up and realise that marraige is something special and shouldnt just be destroyed by some temporary insanity! because most of the time they will never leave there other half and u will end up with the broken heart!!
One more thing: if he/she did leave the other half, what makes u think he wont cheat on u when he is bored??? think abou that!!
2006-09-27 12:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you were to date, have or are dating someone who is married then you most likely knew this from the begining and still chose to date them. so YES they should not be treated any different otherwise you should not be with them. if you were to think about it the person whom is dating them is just as bad as the person cheating. honesty, respect, material things, of course and as for trust, well they didnt lie to you about being married did they?
2006-09-27 12:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by caliescapee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have choosen to date and/or have a relationship with a married person they deserve the same respect as anybody else you are sleeping with. UNTIL, of course they start acting like an a*s.
Its up to you to decide if you are willing to share your partner with the spouse. If you cant do that....then you end things. Married or not...they are still humans and deserve the same respect you would want.
2006-09-27 12:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by texasmiss2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating a married person, you have to ask how many other times this has happened, and if he does finally leave his spouse for you, if he will cheat on you, as well. He has fidelity issues, or was raised as a spoiled brat who never grew out of thinking he was entitled to whatever his whims told him he wanted. Check out of his life NOW and find someone who can stomach commitment, and knows the meaning of the word.
2006-09-27 12:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, eventhough they are being wrong in wanting to go out with someone else, humans do make mistakes. Everything happens for a reason, maybe the other person was to be with their present partner only to evenually meet you. Sounds crazy, but no one knows but the big guy. I had an affair on my wife with another woman for a year. And while it was wrong for me to do that, I met my sould mate and we are still together. I treat her with all the love nad respect that a person should show for another human.
2006-09-27 11:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong, but, how can you be dating a married man. Unless you are his wife, the only thing to do is, leave his family alone.
2006-09-27 12:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think dating a married person is the worse kind of relationship because the whole relationship is build on lies
so i personally think it a waste of time
if the person eventually lives his spouse for u what show he wont live u for someone else
once a cheater always a cheater
2006-09-27 12:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves honesty. You also have to be honest with yourself. If you were to, tell yourself not to, it's wrong. If you have, tell yourself it was wrong and I wont do it again. If you are, tell you and them it's wrong and I want to be a better person then that and end it now!
2006-09-27 12:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by stever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one-you should never date a married man-he can't be honest with his wife-what makes you think he can be honest to you and how would you feel if this was your husband-women like u give the rest of us a bad name
2006-09-27 11:59:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋