Am a little unsure but here's the thing I have a wonderful boyfriend who I am head over heel in love with. But then there is my best friend who is indeed awesome. I have known him since middle school and at one point I liked him and he liked me but high school came and the thought slipped away. Now I have a boyfriend and they have met but he doesn’t really acknowledge the relationship though we have been together for almost 2 years. I'm sometimes with him and he sometimes gets very close to me just to know that I am there. We are in college now and he has always looked out for me even when he was far away. There was a time when his grandmother died and I stayed up all night just to comfort him and he always brought me home from school. And the next day he did not come to school and he made sure that someone took me home and I didn't even ask. Moral of the story I love him dearly and he feels the same but sometimes it seems like more. Am I crazy?
2006-09-27 04:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by dana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow what a lovely story there. It's like one of those movie drama lol. Maybe you should just continue to be friends and let nature do it's thing. U have a very cool friend there. Maybe I should become a little like him lol.
2006-09-27 04:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously with a friendship like that I would hate to miss the opportunity to tell him exactly how I feel. I would tell him how you really (truly) feel about him. From the sounds of it...it may seem that he may have the same kinds of feelings for you. Friends are the best when it comes to sharing everything and being there for one another....isn't it usually said that your partner in life is your best friend? So if this is the case, then I think you should tell him how you feel....if nothing more than being truly honest with one another. I bet he would be taken by the fact that you think more of him and would like to see if a deeper relationship could develop.
Good Luck!
2006-09-27 12:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in the same postion, exact same story ,well kinda..known him since 8th grade, we are now in collge, but ive been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I thoguht i was in love with him to, but you know deep down you love your boyufriend more than anything and that if you took a chance with the best friend, that if things go bad you can loose both. I say sleep on it. and most likely you wil aside with your man, keepthe other guy as a very close best friend, dont loose him like i almost lost mine over stupid drama. hope i helped.
2006-09-27 12:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by BetterStartLiving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy: do u want to sleep with him?? i have a best friend and a bf but i only want to sleep with my bf! if u want to sleep with ur friend u have a problem! can i ask a question, is ur boyfriend just as considerd as ur friend?? ur friend sounds very nice, so if u do love him in that way i would give it a go!! good luck
2006-09-27 12:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have both? Alternate days of the week or something? Or suggest a three-way relationship? Because if you pick one, you'll always wonder what it would have been like if you'd picked the other.
2006-09-27 12:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Leo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A choice needs to be made by you. Follow your heart. I would venture to guess that you will be in a new relationship with your best frined by the end of the year
2006-09-27 11:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should probably talk to him about what feelings he is having for you exactly... Because it kind of sounds like it might be more of a brotherly type feeling he has for you. Wanting to protect you, take care of you, to and from school. Maybe you as well are confusing your feelings for him from that of a brotherly love to a bf level?
2006-09-27 11:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always been said that the best mate is your friend. Guys don't just have friends that are girls so you already know where he stands. So, just sort out your feelings and do what you feel is right.
2006-09-27 11:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it is that u belive that u are in love with ur best friend but that it could be that u really like his comfort. or company...but there could be a chance that ur best friend can be ur greatest partener so think about it but dont confuse it with friendship.
2006-09-27 12:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think you are crazy. Looks like the friend is the one to be with.
2006-09-27 11:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋