I met this boy his in my school,his two years older then me.He asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes...so every thing was great,intil a fleuw days later a called him and this girl aswered and she told me that she diden't what me to call more me cause she was his girfriend.And the next day i wen't to school and asked who was that girl and he told me that he diden't want to be with me anymore...so what can i do nothing write?
2006-09-27 04:51:19 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you answered your own question, love.
2006-09-27 04:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Leo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a little story. I got out of high school in 1990 in Arkansas. I met my first girlfriend/wife in 1993. I wanted to make something of myself in school and go to college without getting caught up in relationships. Well, I must say relationships are ok for some of those who don't have any goals in life to accomplish. You can't nessacerilly do what you want when there is another person who wants you to follow them. I was married for eleven years. Yes, I did manage to squeeze out 2 years of college to get an Associates Degree in Business but my life was taking care of the Kids while my wife went off to college for four years. She became a nurse and also started teaching nursing. There is nothing wrong with that but my life was over, hers just began. I could not go back to college due to the kids, I had no life, I was limited to friends because my wife was always working and I would baby sit all three kids that at the time I did not really want until I was finished with College. My advise to you, don't worry about him. Set goals in life above just relationships. Make something of yourself first. I haven't gotten over my wife cheating on me. I probably never will! I am a broken man and If this bit of advice helps you then I have done well. If not, I hope you do find the answers you are looking for. You are not dumb, or stupid or lazy so never let anyone tell you different.
2006-09-27 05:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your school work as you have atrocious spelling, also you did not come across with the goods and sound like you could do with losing a few pounds and shedding that hard done by attitude. You need to tone up and grow up before any guy will want to initiate you into womanhood. Or you could just repeat this experince through life..
2006-09-27 04:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, you wouldn't want him as a boyfriend anyway, he was two years older but very immature. You have years ahead of you to date and find the right guy. Sometimes you will be the 'dumpee' while other times you may be the one 'dumped' It is a learning experience for you to learn how to treat others and what you will want in a man.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 05:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your still in a mood to be with a guy maybe you should find some grown man. Anyways, pretty much ur rite. Just move on and act like nothing happen.
2006-09-27 04:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid, and stop saying it. First of all, go with guys near your age. and be just friends for a while, that way you will get to know him better, and this wont happen again. He was playing you, so learn from this experience, go out and have friends, learn to have FUN! Don't worry about him, so move on.
2006-09-27 05:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh just forget that guy... he'll pay for what he did but dont ask him to come back with u... if u do that then u will be stupid... but i suppose u r an intelligent girl and understand that he's not the only guy on earth... and believe me his current gf will also regret as i am 100% sure he'll leave her too... gd luck hope u find someone worth u... take care
2006-09-27 04:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your discomfort sweetie, but don't ever think of yourself as being stupid for caring for someone. Give yourself some time to heal, by keeping busy with family and friends. Trust me in time you will get over it and perhaps find you a better boyfriend.
2006-09-27 04:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he did not want to be with you anymore, then you have your answer... You are better than that, so just write him off and move on with your life. You are young and have so much in front of you, he is not worth it...
2006-09-27 04:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are like that older or younger doesnt make much diference. Forget him just the way he forgot you. Live out.
2006-09-27 04:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont think this is ure falt!!! He i the idiot, some guys are just jurcks!!! But there are a lot of nice fishes in the sea so dont give up hope!!! But on ur nicest top, hold ur head up and onto a better fish!!
2006-09-27 04:58:00 · answer #11 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋