If you met somebody that you fell in love with/wanted to be with and you were already with somebody for about 10-11yrs and tired of them didn't want to be with them anymore, but they refused to leave knowing how you felt about them even had been told a few times that you weren't happy with them anymore. You really want to be with that other person, but because the one you live with is being an a$$ an making it hard for you to try and move on with this other person what would you do? Without the one your with knowing you want to be with somebody else (It's your house too you own it!)
2006-09-27 04:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by mzjaydawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do as you like, the best.
2006-09-27 04:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a classic that everyone sometime in their life will go through.The best advice you will get from anyone else on this planet is...THINK this through, no matter how you feel right now,many mistakes have been made on impulses based on lust and desire to be with someone else.But then again you should not have to suffer in a loveless marriage or relationship.
Please please please, take this advice if you take any for it will serve you well,find some good common ground with the person your with at the moment and both of you agree that the problems your both having can either be repaired or you have to separate,because time is precious and waisting time in a cold relationship is a waist of human existence.(If needs be go to a councilor to help you with the separation) when you both have reached that level, separate but only for the reason that this is right for you and not for another man,you must leave your former relationship empowered this will help you with a new and positive start.To start a new relationship straight after a previous one will leave you broken spiritually if the man suddenly decided that he has changed his mind for whatever reason he will leave you broken and alone.So take the strongest steps in life they will always help you to a higher platform.
Hope this serves you well (GOOD-LUCK)
2006-09-27 12:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you cannot just pack your things and go since this is your house... I know someone who is in the same situation as you and she is looking to sell her home and get a new one. This seems kind of extreme (one would think) but the guy just won't leave. Selling your home and buying a new one might be the only way to move on. Good luck! :)
2006-09-27 11:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happens to those who live together wityhout benefit of marriage......
It doesn't wiork, why keep her? You are like a spinelss person. Only a wimp wouldn't know what to do.
Your girlfriend/liv-in/companion will be better off without you in the long run.
Go ruin someone else's life!
2006-09-27 11:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave. I don't need no sorry a55 like that dictating the way I live my life. And don't preach to me about compromise!!!
2006-09-27 11:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass is always greener on the other side. Dont ruin what you have for a fling.
2006-09-27 11:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by jenjl22000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer.
2006-09-27 12:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acknowledge what you can and cannot do and work toward the more appropriate solution. its a tough situation, I wish you luck
2006-09-27 11:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i wanted out and he didn't, i would pack my stuff and go
2006-09-27 11:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋