Should i just put my feet up and get fat by overeating and overdrinking
2006-09-27 04:16:53 · 114 answers · asked by dunc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way.... you are if anything at the top of your game. You have an advantage over younger men as they generally don't have any idea about women. (Don't get angry guys I said generally). Most girls like going out with older men they are better at holding conversation. Don't give up no matter how old or young you...there is always hope.
2006-09-27 04:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people never find love. Maybe you have set your standard in a partner too high. This don't tell us very much about your situation, but maybe that's the problem also, you don't talk enough and don't strike the interest of anyone because they just don't get to know the real you. If you are going after a partner that you want, then you must do it very aggressively or someone else will shoot you out of the saddle. I'm not saying you are a wallflower, but at your age you must start looking at yourself a little more as the reason you haven't found anyone. Sorry to be so straight forward, but sometimes to see the problem one must look inward. What kinds of places do you hang out in? Bars and pubs if you are looking for a drunk, right? My point is; look at the type of partner you wish to have, and start going to the places one like that would be. If you want a church going partner, go to church. Look at someone you admire that has all the luck in the world with picking up partners, then try to model yourself as they are, and you are sure to have positive results in no time at all. I hope you find what you want. Good Luck!!
2006-09-27 04:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to find love. 33 is not that old. I don''t think getting overweight is the answer, unless you want to meet the foxy nurse that will be taking care of you when your knees can't carry your body anymore.
My mum & dad met when my dad was 37. There is still hope for you. Changes are, that once you meet that person, everyone else around you wishes they where still single at the time your partner to be came around that corner. There might be plenty of reasons why you haven't met that someone yet. Maybe this person is very busy right now building up a carreer, or lives abroad, or is waiting for that someone like you. The supermarket round diner time is a place crowded with singles, so is the gym after diner time, books shops on saturdays, or the market, etc.etc. Plenty of places to casually bump into someone.
2006-09-28 19:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late for love. In fact, you can find love AND get fat by overeating and overdrinking. Do it all. Have fun! xo
2006-09-28 11:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mia.ScrewNormal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is too late. I certainly wouldn't go the overeating/drinking route. Enjoy what you have just now, think about taking up some new hobbies.
Where you would meet someone though is another thing. It can also depend on your location. ie I think it's easier to meet someone in a large town or city rather than if you live in a small village.
From my own experience meeting someone in a place like this can be very difficult. I just don't bother anymore, haven't for years now and I'm 43. I'd rather spend my money on my home cinema/DVD collection and my collection of Cuban cigars than waste time trying to find a girlfriend.
2006-09-27 08:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!Besides,r u that desperate enough that just to fulfil ur psychological and social needs,u r simply waiting for some "MR.RIGHT" to come as quick as possible. Yes! u r looking for love but u do'nt need to search for it through anyone's care, respect and recognition.U will all the love u need right in the inner core of ur heart.Listen to ur conscience.Do some introspection and soul-searching.May be!the time has not come yet or may be destiny has some other really special and brighter plans for u.Meditate and look within ur forceful energy field to find the reason and the right time.Remember!!!!!ur soul knows everything and will only send signals once u listen to it from a pure mind,body and heart.
2006-09-27 04:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never to late to find love! I had this conversation with a female friend the other month who's going through what I call "The Bridget Jones Syndrome!" She was sayin to me that shes to old now and everyone else is gettin married blah blah blah!!
I just told her to shut up get out there, be content with the life shes living and all she has got, and to look to the future and the right man will walk into her path!
Hey presto a bit later and shes going out with a new guy and is well happy.. My advise to you is to just enjoy life and don't look for love let it come to you! I have to agree I think as you get older it harder to meet people whether it be partners or friends! So maybe start doin new things and join clubs and definitely dont relie on nightclubs and bars to find your soulmate!
2006-09-27 04:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Glitterstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you doss around with your feet up you certainly aren't going to meet anyone are you!! Do you expect a beautiful, tall, blonde lady to come and knock at your door and say "hi. I heard you were looking for someone to love? Well here I am".
And you can get fat by over eating / drinking if you want but this won't change a thing and if you do end up like this you will only use it as another excuse for not finding anyone. The shape you are is important in the scheme of things but not as important as you might think. It's us men who are attracted by what we see but the ladies are attracted by how they feel. Or more specifically how YOU MAKE THEM FEEL. So if a guy makes a woman feel good she won't care what shape he is.
So you've got to go where you can meet people and I don't mean the King's Head I mean a club or activity group where you'll meet people with similar interests to yours who will want to get to know you as much as you want to get to know them. I know this is old and well worn advice but it does work - give it a go. Just make them laugh. Let us know how you get on.
2006-09-27 04:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not too late! I'm 33 and have recently got together with someone. And there are quite a few envious admirers still around! So what are you waiting for?! Get out there and meet people! do interesting things, that you like and you'll find people who like the same things as you... Dont get desperate, cause thats a real turn-off! Be positive, enjoy life.
2006-09-27 04:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by camilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugh Hefner is nearly ninety and yet finds love everyday. He doesnt eat or drink or gets fat either. So why shud you. Buck up buddy to find love, you need to approach. Thats important. So tighten your belts and pull your sleeves. Go to a gal that you might love and SAY, that you are interested. Will get you somewhere for sure rather than getting you nowhere in crazy discussions over net. Best of luck.
2006-09-28 08:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋