My ex cheated on his ex who he has a child with his ex which she now hates him and can't stand to see him can he have feelings for her or he was just getting some and while at it made a child and that's why i never trusted him because like they say once a cheater always a cheater
2006-09-27 04:15:29 · 11 answers · asked by Liz21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that just because you have a child with someone means you will always have feelings for them. I know this for a fact. And once a cheater always a cheater can and has been proven wrong. Maybe he wasn't that serious with her and he didn't take their relationship to heart, so he cheated. In the meanwhile she got pregnant, and we all know it only takes one time for that to happen. So the bottom line is .....No, it doesn't mean he still has feelings for her because they have a child together. I know he is your ex also, but unless he gave you reason to believe he cheated on you, don't worry about it.
2006-09-27 04:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a possibility. I have a child with a guy and I hate his guts and he tried to hit on me still even though I was married and had another child. He finally got married but still acts weird around me. He did it when he now wife wasn't around and did it right in front of my daughter(who doesn't like him either......long story). Some men just don't care about other peoples feelings while others do. He still might care for her because they do have a child together but that might be it. Does he act different when shes around? If he does then you need to sit down and have a talk with him and if he gets real defensive then you know that theres more then what hes telling you. The saying isn't always true. I know alot of people who use to be a cheater and now they aren't. Some people change and some don't. Also if you can't trust him then yes you should break up with him. Trust is very important and if you don't have it then you have nothing. Good luck.
2006-09-27 11:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater...not true. People make mistakes and some people learn from them. Sometimes things happen in this life that we have no control over. Millions of people have children together and by the end hate one another. It sounds to me your afraid the same thing will happen in your relationship that happened in his last relationship. Have a little faith. Maybe he thought he was in love with his ex but isnt and found true love with you. If he had true love for this other women and they have a child together trust me they would prolly still be together. Relax and just talk to him about the way your feeling.
2006-09-27 11:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much she hates him, a man will always have feelings for the woman who bears him a child. Funny part about that is that sometime HE won't even know he's got feelings for her. Theres some sort of eternal emotional bond there. And yeah, once a cheater, always a cheater. I advise you cut your losses, and lose the guy. How can you expect to have a lasting relationship with a man that you can never learn to trust? Ronijn~@}->------------
2006-09-27 11:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A chid is a very powerful thing that may or may not hold two people together. Or maybe it is all just in your head b/c just like you said, oce a cheater always a cheater, has he given you any reasons to make you think he is cheating on you, was he cheating with you on his baby's momma?
2006-09-27 11:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by jacee_jo7910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can still have feelings for her. He's just too immature to know how to be a man. U R right about cheaters. They don't change.
2006-09-27 11:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by TB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a child with her he's gonna love her bc she's the mother of his child!!
2006-09-27 11:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too complicated
2006-09-27 11:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by the S'bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,could be guilt
i mean they have a kid together & seeing the kid only reminds him of what he did to her
2006-09-27 11:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by liz c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he probably still does.
2006-09-27 11:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Metal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋