I am engaged to a wonderful man, there is only a couple of problems, We work at the same job and we work with his ex.....now they were only together a couple of months, but I cant seem to shake this ugly feeling that she is trying to annoy me by trying to get his attention,he doesnt fall for it, but he says if he has to talk to her its only to deal with his job. Now, what I need help on, how do I not be jealous of her , when they we're intimate together?
2006-09-27 04:05:45 · 5 answers · asked by becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have him now. he's marrying you. everyone has a past... everyone has ex's. just keep in mind that he loves you, and only you, and don't let the other girl bother you. you obviously have something she lacks, which is why he ISN'T with her and he IS with you.
2006-09-27 04:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to loose your finance then you need to get over the nonsense, even if that's what she is TRYING to do you have to options here 1. tell her how you feel and ask her to stop or 2. it's my favorite turn the tables, start speaking saying hi this will throw her for a loop because it seems her intentions are to upset you. never let the enemy know when they got you. when you see her it's all smiles, kill her with kindness when she see you she is not gonna know what to expect and this way she will back off and besides your the one with the ring remember that trust your man and keep your enemy close
2006-09-27 11:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. My current long term b/f was engaged to this girl, and I cant get over the feelings that I get when we are having sex or something. I just realize that he's with me and not her and it kinda helps. I guess as they say "You sleep with everyone that they have slept with".
2006-09-27 11:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by amber b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your with him now and engaged...If he isn't paying any atterntion to her other then job realated stuff then you know he isn't trying to get back together with her...Not to worry
2006-09-27 11:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by princessn678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE AT YOUR WORK SO THAT YOU ARE EVEN.
2006-09-27 11:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋