My bf and I have known each other for 3 months now.
I feel I'm being loved, and cared, so much.
When I asked him how he feels about me, he said "I like you damn much, I care the whole world for you! I feel so happy, so lucky that I've met you. You are the most thing I care now"
I feel the same, very much.
I think I love him, but since English isn't my first language, I seriously don't know how strong the word is. Is it too early to use the L word? Is it too early to expect him to say the word?
2006-09-27 04:00:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not to early, if you feel it you feel it you can't control it either it's there or it's not. You should know in your heart when the right time is. Everyone is different. Talk to him and tell him the way you feel. It never hurts to see if he feels the same way. If he doesn't love you then just forget about it and just have fun with him. Maybe he will eventually. If time goes on and no response then maybe you guys should just be friends. I told my boyfriend I loved him when we were going out like 3 or 4 months and he said he loved me and we have been together for 3 years and we are engaged. So it worked out just fine for me. But like I said before everyone is different. But you should know when the time is right. I hope you the best.
2006-09-27 04:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thimk it's better to be a little specufic and cautious when it comes to matters of the heart.U can say the word after all u both seem to get along so well and like each other also.But to like someone is different from loving someone.Love needs commitment,understanding and is a much deeper feeling.It comes from the heart at the right time.I don't think u have probed deeper into his conscious or understood his innermost intentions and feelings.Coz if u had than u wouldn't be needing any help to express ur feelings.I think u should wait for one more month or 2-3 weeks and get to know him better!!!Besides, u need t o make sure of his commitment and never-ending love for u.So be careful!
2006-09-27 04:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time either party uses the L-word, it's often a major point in the relationship. Typically, each person avoids using it - in case the other is scared off. Instead, they wait for the other person to say it first.
You should try to find a way of saying it, without actually saying it. Something like "If I keep seeing you, I'm gonna fall in love". Good luck!
2006-09-27 04:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People use the word 'love ' too quickly and too often. See if you still feel the same way about this guy in 3 months, if you are both in love with each other then you will still be together then, don't rush in.
2006-09-27 04:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are loved, he shows is, anyone can say it but being shown love is far better. There are men out there who beat their wives and after are quick to say they're sorry and they love the person they've just beaten. Love is more measurable with actions than words. And by the way you speak English very well, far better than a lot of English people do so you should feel pleased with yourself all round.
2006-09-27 04:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by waspy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww u r so romantic, choose all adult adult males thinks an identical why u imagine at the same time as u suggested: i only sense like i'm doing my pastime because no count number what (i'd nicely be having the worst day) and at the same time as women human beings smile i trust like my day has grew to change into between the suitable about me...i say this note ALOT!! lol
2016-11-24 22:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's too early to say "love". Chances are, from the sound of it anyway, you both love eachother. You've got nothing to lose from expressing how you truly feel. You might actually feel better getting it off your chest!
2006-09-27 04:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men have always found it hard to say the word. this does not mean they dont and im sure when they eventually do say it , it will be worth waiting for.........
2006-09-27 04:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him, you just need to tell him. Nothing could go wrong. All you are doing is expressing your love for him.
2006-09-27 04:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awwwwwww!!!! there is no time timit to saying the "L" word, if you feel that way about him just say it!!!
even if he doesnt say it back to you strait away, he will respect you for showing your true feelings!!
awww....i feel i need to go and buy a wedding hat!!!
good luck, hope all works out!
2006-09-27 04:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋