Jobless, no friends, no relationship with right guy, no money, do you?

Question

think this kind of life is a tragedy and nothing but misery?

Answer 1

Look at the bright side. You have nothing tying you down. You are entirely free to do whatever you want. Decide what you want to be doing and start doing it.

Answer 2

Nope. I think you've hit a wall and you can either stand there and look at it or you can climb over it and forget all about it. You will have more times in your life when you'll feel like you're not going anywhere or don't have anything going for you. But ask yourself:How much of this are you trying to change? It's not that hard to get a job and I think you should start there. Get a job, make some money, meet new people and worry about the guy later cause he'll only throw you off course anyway. Believe in yourself and the rest will just come together!

Answer 3

This is not a tragedy. In life, there is always ups and downs. 2 years ago, I was jobless too, due to business failure, I owed several Banks about S$60,000 plus. My girlfriend left me, I involved in an traffic accident....all misfortunate happened almost at the same time. Now, I am having 2 jobs, earning about S$5k per month, I also find a new relationship, my debt is almost clear. That's life, it's not the end unless you yourself wanna give up.

Answer 4

Get out there girl! And start livin! It's not a tragedy and it's never too late to make it all right.

My favorite movie quote is from "Vanilla Sky"
"Each passing second is another chance to turn it all around."

Get you a job (doesn't matter what kind) and make some friends of your co-workers. With the job will come at least a little money and who knows....maybe you'll meet the right guy in the process.

Answer 5

Well if someone has no job chances are they won't have money but think of it as a temporary thing. There are many reasons for not having friends, perhaps you moved recently and haven't yet had time to establish yourself, especially if you are looking hard for work. If it is a persistant state then yeah it is pretty sad, but if its just a transitional thing at an unlucky time in someones life then I wouldn't say it is a tragedy.

Answer 6

u r a rainbow, with so many colours and still say that u r black and white. u r in perfect mind. Be happy. this is a passing phase. every dark cloud has a silver line. every night has a day. look out for small jobs. Built up confidence. positive thinking u can do attitude. By the time u posted this letter, u might be feeling better. Ofcourse people look down on the poor. but that does not matter.
Think of underprivileged people more in Africa and Vietnam elsewhere.

Answer 7

My opinion is this...Absolutely not...the tragedy is you feel the way about life the way you do...My suggestion is this...take responsibility to improve on whatever shortcomings you view there are in your life...Start identifying what you need to do to change the situation your in....Start with small steps, set some goals for yourself, little by little you will be able to overcome what you view as misery. You would be surprised what can happen if you desire it enough, and work tword something...Meaningful change doesn't come without work....often times sacrifice is what is needed, change in attitude, and belief in ones own worth. Start to define what you want...and be accountable ....You can change....No excuses. People don't plan to fail...they just fail to plan. Good Luck...hope this helps...it has for me....might be worth a try.

Answer 8

my suggestion, find a job - there you will meet new people and it may spark some new friendships as well. That will also solve the money problem. As far as the guy thing, don't beat yourself up over it, if you feel you need a guy in your life to make it complete, well then, you need to look at why that is. You don't need another person in your life to make it better. Stop looking for Mr. Right and when you are least expecting it, you will find him. I think its miserable if you don't understand or care to fix what is wrong.....people with this sort of life can do minor things to change this lifestyle and make themselves feel better.

Answer 9

It may seem like a tragedy, but out of the bad comes good; you'll see. Keep your hope alive and something good will happen. If you are feeling like you've hit rock-bottom, then there is only one way out. It's up.

Answer 10

You need to make an effort with at least one of these aspects, then you will probably get a spin off effect. For instance a job will lead to money and probably to making some sort of friends. It is never over till it is over.