when i look at our picture together, i think we look good. i really don't care what people think about my dating a younger man, but i'm curious to know if people feel kind of shocked when they see us together. :) thanks for your answers.
2006-09-27 03:21:57 · 28 answers · asked by curious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more or bigger pics of us on my 360 page.
2006-09-27 03:22:59 · update #1
I'm not going to patronise you, but I think that it doesn't really matter what I (or anyone else) thinks. You have to be happy and go for a relationship that works for you. Age differences don't have to be an issue at all. I have a 14 year difference between my partner and me and sometimes people think I am the older one! We share alot in common and have a good quality of life together. We have been together nearly 9 years now and are still going strong. So, I see no reason why it shouldn't work. Just go with your heart and enjoy the relationship for what it's worth. However long it might last.
2006-09-27 03:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is Important , is not the now. You didn't mention the age difference. The depth of love will be challenged. The problem is not you , but him. You are an attractive woman (NOW) beauty is fleeting. Take divorce , every time a man remarries , each wife is younger than her predecessor . If your relationship is based on looks or sex, it is doomed.
If he feels the loss every time you are apart , if he smells your pillow when you are gone.If his love is strong enough to pass the test of time and his eyes don't wander when you walk down the street. Go for it. but, if you question the things that I have said. It will be much harder to start again in ten years.
Get two pieces of paper and on one write everything you expect and on the other everything you're willing to give.
Have him do the same and trade papers. You may be surprised
2006-09-27 03:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, who cares! If you love each other, that should be all that matters! Sure, people will look, but people are always looking for something to talk about. I date a younger man, too...and I know people probably look at us, too. But I know that we're happy when we're together. If they're shocked, let them be shocked! I think it's a good sign that you can handle that young stallion!
2006-09-27 03:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by vette5_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask how big the age gap is? I'm in love with a younger man, too, so no I dont feel shocked. Justin Timberlake and Cameron Diaz, Kutcher and Demi Moore... you see they are happy together :D
Goodluck with your marriage!
2006-09-27 03:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Odin N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing your pic is too small to see anything. Secondly age is just a #. I"m 29 and my hubby will be 45 next month. He's the best thing that ever happened to me, other than my children of course :)
2006-09-27 03:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by chinadoll31645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a very clear pic. Mid 20's?? I am married to a an older man and wasn't bothered about other peoples views - you go girl!!
2006-09-27 03:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, and as long as you both are happy that's all that matters.Who cares what everyone else thinks..If you love him and he loves you so be it..I just hope later in life he doesn't leave you for a woman more his age that would be my only concern, Good Luck to the both of you.
2006-09-27 03:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really tell that much difference. Don't worry about what other people think. As long as you and your boyfriend are okay with the age difference then nothing else should matter. Good Luck!
2006-09-27 03:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don"t care, why are you asking people? My husband is 12 years younger and I don't care what people are thinking, but I also don't ask them. People can be cruel, just go on with your life if you are happy.
2006-09-27 03:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both look to be in your late 20's or early 30's
2006-09-27 03:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋