So today my boyfriend asked me to go over his house and well i know why. I dont know if i should rush it though but i also dont want to slow it down. Wouldnt u think that after sex it will change the relationship into a good way or bad?
2006-09-27 03:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex definately changes a relationship, but if your not ready tell him you are comfortable where your relationship is at right now.
2006-09-27 03:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been dating, how old you are, and how serious you want the relationship to be.
If you think its rushing, ( and I think u think so by asking) then its probably not a good time.
Have you said I love you yet? Do u think this relationship is going to last?
Any doubts then that's good really, u know yourself. I wish I hadn't slept with some of my ex's really. Looking back, its not worth the number. ( not that its a big #, just now that I am wit hthe man I will always be with its not worth there ever being more than 1- much less anymore)
2006-09-27 03:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your very young because if you where older you would not have to ask this question, but it's good you asked know you should not rush your relationship, and it sounds like your not sure and not ready so until you feel completely comfortable then you should wait and most definitely sex changes everything and most of the time when your young it's not the best thing to do try doing other things like movies, bowling dancing this is what dating is all about sex should not even be a thought lol and i hope the best for you
2006-09-27 03:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never rush a relationship and yes sex always changes the relationship.
2006-09-27 03:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush when the time is right you'll know it a relationship is built on a lot of things sex will fall in some time when your ready and trust me you'll know when the time is right
2006-09-27 04:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by pjmman2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont necessarily have to have sex...just do other stuff
tell him how you feel too......if theres one thing thats annoying its being in the dark about stuff like this
I recently went out with a girl that didn't say more than 2-3 words about how she was feeling and whatnot over the course of 6 months........its very annoying, and then to just expect him to know is bad too.....unless he's known you for several years then the circumstances might be different
2006-09-27 03:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by dP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself until marriage. Sex always changes a relationship.
2006-09-27 03:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Luvv2travel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True,
sex is a two way act. So if he really needs it convince him that iots not necessary. If her persists tell him he is hurting your feelings and check his behaviour.
If he doesnt care about your feelings he is a fake. If he does go and give it to him next time.
Goodluck.
2006-09-27 03:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want to go all the way blow him till he unloads and that will fix it for now , obiously you want it too, it will only change if thats the only thing he is after guess you'll find out but i say give him the head and itll work itself out
2006-09-27 03:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Duane G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will change it in a good way--it will add a new dimension to your relationship.
2006-09-27 03:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋