Would you be jealous. What would you do
2006-09-27 02:42:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
no, it's not okay, but not just because it can cause you jealousy. He has no right to touch ANYONE sexually who is not "his." It wouldn't be okay for anyone to do, and making a joke of it is no excuse. Try not to feel jealous, though, because then you will tend to focus on the wrong part of the problem. Even if you were a stranger to your boyfriend, you shouldn't approve of such public actions by anyone, no matter what sex they are.
2006-09-27 02:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Niqabi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.o I really don't think its ok. This is like asking if its ok for your girl friends to touch him in a sexual way..jokingly of course. Most people don't just go touching somone in a 'sexual' way, jokingly, theres a difference between being playful..but sexual? Thats an excuse soo many people use, and get away with. I think I would be jealous, but not really because my bf (obviously) isn't gay, but I would be pissed that the gay guy touched him that way, especially if he knew he was straight, and had a girlfriend. Bounderies people, even when 'joking'..you need to know when to stop. What would I do? Probably confront them, and make sure they had understood that it was out of place.
2006-09-27 09:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is: Was it okay with your boyfriend to be touched in a sexual way by any Male or Female? It is his state of mind at the time of the incident that matters most, not his girlfriends.
Being Jealous is not a correct emotion, Outraged at being sexually harassed is more appropriate, especially if the touching was done without consent.
2006-09-27 09:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would be jealous,but on the gay guy's behalf,it would be the same as if he were another girl.I would have to let him know he should back off,but I wouldn't be upset.But think about it,there is no reason to touch someone in a sexual way if you are just joking.
2006-09-27 09:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by kimberli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not, sexual is sexual and unless its consensual then it is not ok.
Touching someone in a sexual way whether male, female or bi is not on unless permitted by all parties.
If someone touch me sexually without permission I would have them charged with sexual assault.
If your boyfriend thinks its ok and just a laugh then you will just have to accept it, you can tell the guy who is doing it to stop because you find it offensive, if he doesn't stop, then your boyfriend should tell him to if he has any consideration for your feelings
2006-09-27 09:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by michelle a 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not OK for someone else to touch my husband in a sexual manner, no matter what gender. I would tell the person that I don't accept such behavior.
2006-09-27 09:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by *duh* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it my husband or any one of my sons would probably the lay the guy flar out with their fists. They are highgly opposed to that and would not tolerate any kind of touvhing from a gay person.
2006-09-27 09:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO is what I would do, because it is way more uncomfortable for a straight guy to be flirted with by a gay guy, than it is for the girlfriend to watch.
2006-09-27 09:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
would it be OK for a straight girl to do this to your boyfriend ... even in joke ?
if you are Ok with one .. why not the other
if you are not OK with it ... then you should be honest and tell them
2006-09-27 09:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Peace 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend were straight, I'd probably just laugh, if he were bi, I'd probably be a bit jealous.
2006-09-27 09:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Spookshow Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋