2006-09-27 02:40:54 · 11 answers · asked by samuel c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you have to post the same question again?
2006-09-27 02:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want the person to love you and care about you as much as you care about them. You want the Devotion, the loyalty, the friendship, the trust, and you want the bond.
You want that person to try to be as close to you as you want to be to him or her, and most people don't realize that the other feels the same way. So, we wonder how the other person feels. We get suspicious if they aren't showing us that they are deeply in love or if they seem to have more fun with other people than us, we get jealous.
A person in love must realize that the love is strong, but that the other person has to interact and deal with life and the other people and situations in it. Just as a mom loves her baby. She can't pay attention to the baby all the time. She will need a sitter sometimes, but you know she really loves her baby. It's the same way with romantic love. People expect us to show our feelings and devotion all the time and it's impossible because of Life and the many distractions.
These things: time, distance, money, other people, work, TV, etc, all test our love affections and commitments everyday. So you have to realize that and keep it mind during rough times in the relationship.
But, if you love someone who doesn't love you back or, who doesn't care about you, or know that you exist, it can be a real pain. Here, you must try to use your head over your heart. Be sure your "love" is not a fantasy, or lust, a simply a desire to end your loneliness...
Sorry about being so short - the stock market is open and I'm late.
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-09-27 02:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love a disaster? Not if it really is love. I do not know how old you are ...but love, if it is REAL love is one of life's great 'perks'. We all have our own definition of love...it revolves around caring, respect, selflessness and deep concern for another person. It is NOT all about physical attraction, self-gratification or needing someone for the sake of not being alone. I can honestly say it took me years and years to really find love and its true reward. Along the way you might think you are in love, but if you are making TOO many sacrifces and always feeling taken for granted...it is not love...you have fallen into a rut...and climbing out of that rut is tough and debilitating. In every relationship you have,hopefully we get a little smarter and a little more grounded with our hearts. We tend, as humans to give up so much...the best thing to do is to think with our brains and use our past experiences as a guide book.
2006-09-27 03:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by MUMNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends of people can be or not.
Minimum 75 % of people are making wrong decision from the beginning and when they find out - is time for drastic disaster,
2006-09-27 02:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very beautiful word but there are some people who wants to destroys it. Love is smooth but at the same time,it is painful and gives you stress. We would be yearning for love but even if we get also,there will be a lot of worries and thinking what my guy/gal is doing at this time? Why my gal/guy didnt sms me or call me since morning? Does he really loves me or not? This kinnda questions would be going inside our heart. Once loved.its a very very painful thing when you cant forget the person you loved very much. I really don't know whether you are a guy or a gal,but if u r gal,let mi say something. We gals hearts are soft-heartered. Once we love,well love that person n if we hate that person,we wont even look at them anymore even the world is going to ruin. As for guys.if you really love your gal,pls sms or cal your girl everyday at least mornin,afternoon or night. the gals will b v hapi n ls dun hurt the girls feeling n if ahe leaves you,you cant take it. Take Care. God Bless You.
2006-09-27 02:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by pLaYgAl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a drastic disaster....you're jus looking in the wrong places for it..make standards and dont bend them for noone no matter how cute she is. If there is something you dont like abot the person..dont talk to them...continue on your quest. But sometimes you jus have to open your eyes and notice the small things in the beginning to depict how things will turn out. the majority of the time the small stuff you notice are probably small snippets of the real person..there are jus hiding it...
2006-09-27 02:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's full of emotions. Be honest in love always and then it's not so drastic.
2006-09-27 02:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not.For me its a sweet poison.
2006-09-27 02:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by julia _bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is what you make of it
2006-09-27 02:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, is it not great!!!
2006-09-27 02:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋