How do you know if you really love somone? And if so... How do you know if that someone is your soulmate? According to the dictionary a soulmate is your fbest friend, someone you can laugh with, be sad with, etc. But I have loads of friends that I can do that with. What makes someone that special and what if you found your soulmate but there is no love?
2006-09-27 02:28:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you wonder about them - they aren't it. You'll know. It's that easy.
2006-09-27 02:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People mix up what soulmates really are. Your true soulmate is within yourself and then you have our celestial/angel friends. This means our soul/spirit is friends with another soul/spirit. A soul mate is not your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend. Its a term to describe the bond but is inappropriatly missused. Your soul mate can be a plant, animal, member of your family, anyone or anything. Finding your soul mate on earth simply means that your astral/celestial friend is in another living form and that you have found each other. When soul mates do find each other, it usually a tragic thing, meaning that it is vertually impossible for you two (you have many many soulmates but it's rare to find more than a few in your current lifetime) to have a wedded type relationship. It is limited to mainly a friendship type thing as many soulmates can be your pet, your grandparent, your nephew, a good freind who you have trouble geeting along with but you know each other from the other realm. The soulmate you think you have as a partner is not your soulmate, these people are your LIFEMATES, thats all. Soulmates have a "feeling"type of comunication (non verbal telepathic) and have a connection metaphysically to one another, and when you reseach each others past you find that you both, all 3, all 4 or whatever, you all have had very very similar occurances and life dicisions made (you can see this in animals too only if you know their past). Soulmate is the friend of your spirit and not your frind per say. Lifemates are the ones you can spend a lot of your time with. I hope this can somewhat clear the air!
2006-09-28 19:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know instantly when you meet them if they are your soul mate. A soulmate is much more than just a best friend there is a connection between you that is instant and you both will know when it happens.
My soulmate is my husband how lucky is that? We quite often share the same thoughts do not have all the same likes and dislikes but it seems to have a way of not really mattering.
It's almost like the other person is a part of you.
2006-09-27 02:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by citta_uk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's someone you want to spend all your time with doing all kinds of things together as well as romantic things. Just like you would with your best female friend. Your soulmate should understand you and support you and you would do the same, you laugh, cry, have fun with, and even argue with. It's hard to explain but most people just know when they meet their soulmate.
2006-09-27 23:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be your soulmate......first you have to have strong beliefs in what a relationship is, and the person that you want to be with. should feel the same way....... to many women get caught in the trap of finding love and soulmates... when the truth is no 2 people think the same way.... example...... you'll have to understand everything doesn't revolve around an ideal...
just try and be happy in life in general... worklife...socialising.....relationships..... if you can do this... you'll find that you will be the perfect soulmate for whoever you choose....
2006-09-28 11:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by David M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do love the person & you still talk about important things (not just idle chat) & truly enjoy being with each other after 2 years or longer (the euphoric hot lust-love stage doesn't go past that time per experts) , I believe they are a candidate for your soulmate.
2006-09-27 02:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a cliche, and I know how infuriating I used to find this answer before I met my fiancé (so I apologise!), but when you meet 'the one' you really do just know it.
The relationship just feels so comfortable so quickly. It's like putting on a favourite old pair of slippers, unromantic as that sounds! It brings a balance and contentment to your life that you never realised you were missing until you found it and you feel completely secure in the love of that person and the life you have together.
I'm sorry I can't explain it better, but I don't have the words to describe the feeling. It's overwhelming and wonderful.
2006-09-29 05:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thing a soulmate is someone who is your everythin! Someone who within you're heart you feel you know really really well even when you have known them only a few days!
A soulmate is the person who you cant see ever leaving your life.
Someone who gives you butterflies, who gives you warmth love and comfort and some one you trust totally and can talk to!
2006-09-27 04:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Glitterstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people look for a soulmate. It is really just a fanciful notion and not easy to define. Trust and loving someone when they are being themselves and not how you want them to be. If you both have that then you are near enough.
2006-09-27 02:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by simsiboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can look into their eyes and feel love. Your whole body feels numb. You can tell that person anything in the whole entire world. You never want your conversation to end. You feel a physical attraction but it's more then that to you. You have a connection with them. You know it is your soulmate, because you can just feel it.
2006-09-27 02:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen identical twins being interviewed? They even have an uncanny ability to finish each others sentences!!! This should give you a clue when you find a soulmate. There have been cases where, when one dies or suffer a trauma, the other "knows" even when apart.
2006-09-27 02:34:36 · answer #11 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋