Me and my boyfriend broke up on monday. he will not stop coming over to my house and will not stop calling me at 2:00 or 4:00 a.m. I still love love him but i dont think i can go out with him again. i call the cops on him but they said that they cant do anything to him till he hurts me. he said that he was going to have someone kick my a** because i told him that it was over because i fround out that he was cheating on me for 2 weeks and the only reason i found out was beacuse i went to a party that some of his friends where at and i ask them where was he at and they told me off with some girl what should i do i still love him but i dont know if i could handed it again with the cheating.
2006-09-27 01:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by desi07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust him then there is no relationship I think most men are very weak when it comes to being faithful because if they really love you they would be faithful but I think some want there cake and eat it to but then when they get caught they become afraid of losing you they straighten out but make him earn your trust back or don't take him back!!!
2006-09-27 12:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by goldenchild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there should be no doubts what so ever that you ought to do everything within your power to stay away from this jackass. whatever feelings you have left for this jerk should be saved for someone who has his head screwed right. this person sounds very irrational and you do need to take some cautionary actions:
1. change your phone number and don't give it out to people that you know would give it to him.
2. change your lock as soon as possible.
3.even though the police can't do anything right now but make sure they have some kind of record of you reporting the threat.
4. change your routine so it is less likely that he'll follow you.
the whole thing is about his EGO, even though he cheated on you, he still needs to have the sense of being able to keep you as token of his manliness(or jackassery). Some times some men would do extreme things to keep that.
2006-09-27 02:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes harrassing you,,you CAN get a restraining order on him..go down to the police station and fill one out. Once they have him on file,the next time you call the cops on him they will arrest him because you have the restraining order on him. Dont let the cops tell you that there is nothing they can do because thats a lie. He sounds to me like you need some kind of protection from him. Hes stalking you. Dont ever take him back for nothing. Go file a report on him.,And dont wait. good luck
2006-09-27 02:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you truly opt to post with this 5 years later once you've childrens and he leaves you on my own with them for days and days? It does no longer be straightforward for the youngsters fairly. You adult men could seek for counseling in case you refuse to go away him because in case you adult men cant talk then you honestly gained't very last. the subjects you've now gained't go away later till you locate a fashion to fix it now. How can he go away? Why are you shocked? You already knew he may you merely did not comprehend what day. stop blaming him and initiate taking duty on your own movements. ask your self instead, why you're staying with him.
2016-12-02 04:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can still love him, but you cannot allow such an @$$ in your life. and what your ex is doing now is called harassment and yes the police can do something. you call and ask for a report, then you take it to get an order of protection. then he will go to jail if he comes near you. it is a long process but do it. i didnt and i got beat up so badly, because the first officer told me the same thing, he wasnt hurting me physically, and once he beat me up and i spoke with the district attourney, i gave the name and badge # to her and then she handled the officer who wouldnt help me.
2006-09-27 02:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put up with no cheating man. How he be mad at you for catching him cheating? He is crazy and diluted! Please dont go back to him! He is acting like a stalker and threatening to have you physically harmed---why would you wanna go back to that?! Do you have an older brother to woop his asss?!
2006-09-27 02:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you 'see' him with a girl or did he admit it? or is it just his friends? are they his good friends or were they just having fun at the time ( i mean the point is: are you sure).. why don't you two just sit n talk about it instead of waiting out at the door or yelling.. (altho if he really did what he did, then YOU should kick his ***)
2006-09-27 02:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by jellicle_mungojerrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser. Is that the best you can do? I don't think so. Get a restraining order. Saying he's gonna kick your @ss is a threat.
2006-09-27 01:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really loves you if he keeps trying to contact you.peole make mistakes.Sometimes they are not sorry until they get caught.I believe in second chances,if really love is there.the girl was nothing but a booty call.Tell him what he ha sto do to make things right.you can forgive but never forget.
2006-09-27 02:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats something your going to have to fin out on your own.....i mean if my man cheated on me i would at least talk to him about it and if you really love him give him another chance....just think if you were supposvely cheating on him wouldnt u want him to give you another chance....but its up to you and your heart.....C'Ya
2006-09-27 02:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Big T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋