co'z I'm so in love with him and he told me he is in love with me but i love him more ,..co'z he already taken by another girl and it makes me going insane of thinking about it ..do i have to ignore this feelling? i will sacrifice my love for him , because i love him so muchh.......i hate this feellings can you help me Please?
2006-09-27 01:37:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was really in love he would leave the other girl... Stand up for yourself and ask him to make a choice. If he's unwilling to do that then you are going to have to spend some time apart so you can work on getting over it. Remember... You are worth it! If he really wants to be with you he will break it off with his girlfriend.
2006-09-27 01:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. You can't change or choose how you feel about someone. If I were you i would just try to ignore him and his girlfriend so that the feeling can pass more quickly. If you are in a relationship, your boyfriend/girlfriend should be your best friend! But not every relationship is that way. Do what your heart tells you to do. Goodluck:)
2006-09-27 08:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are showing what you are made of . You are not a selfish person.If you love him & you let him go so that you don't ruin him with girl that is great but how would you feel if you loved someone & didn't know he was in love with someone else. just becareful cause alot of people can get hurt if you don't handle this correctly.
2006-09-27 08:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should go out in the world and try to find someone else. I think the only way to get rid of love with someone is to find love with someone else. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-27 08:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_stud829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you is, you have to recognize opportunity when it's knocking. what would make a better relationship you meeting a stranger or having someone that knows you inside and out. there is an old saying Friends make the best lovers and i was always told you should be Friends before you become lovers. knock knock; WHO is it? you best Friend/ lover let me in
2006-09-27 08:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear you cant get rid of this feeling if you guys are going to still talk and hang out that's how you probably fell for him in the first place its not easy to get over something like this you just have to try to not talk to him so much and see other people
2006-09-27 08:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by nclgivens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1/ Does he desire you physically or is he really deeply in love sentimentaly?
2/ If answer A/, forget it, if answer B/, make sure that he quits for real his girl friend before making anything with him.
Good luck
2006-09-27 08:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by lorenzzzo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get rid of those feelings.I've been there,hell I'm still there.All you can do is tell him how you feel & if it's meant to be it'll happen sooner or later.Good luck hun,I know it's hard.
2006-09-27 08:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he feels the same for u, then u two should go out together.....there's no reason to lie to his other gf, it would not be fair for her either.....although she'll be hurt, but it's better than lieing like that.....she'll be more hurt.......if u really insist of forgetting him, i'm sorry but the only way to do so is to let time past.......occupy your time by doing fun activities till u forget about him......sometimes, when u feel lonely, let your mind wander about him, then, he'll slowly fade away from your mind....
2006-09-27 08:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its horrible taht you would even contemplate this in my mind.
first you are trying to break up his relationship for your personal gain, and then you are planning to break up with your bf. Why do you even say you will sacrifice your love for him. you don't love the guy you are with now if you would do this.
2006-09-27 08:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋