do stretch marks after having babies turn men off and how many women spend money trying to minimize them
2006-09-27 01:36:42 · 36 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'll be honest i am a man, men are horndogs if your totaly advertising your strech marks then yes it be turn off (meaning if the only piece of skin that is showing is your stretch marks). but if ur wearring some thing that shows more ? clevage,breast,legs,***, and or your whooo , then what stretch marks we wont see them they could jump up off your skin and slap us in the face and we would not know what hit us or where it whent or where it came from ! do you understand what im trying to get across to you ?
2006-09-27 01:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by hthammond 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How could a man be turned off from what he did just say. He helped make the baby and the baby made the woman's skin stretch which cause stretch marks. Men are so shallow, its like saying if your wife was in a fire and severely burned would you still love her. Maybe you should ask these men that question. I know my fiance pays no mind to them. I had one baby, but he was so big and I was so small he gave me stretch marks on one half of my stomach. I feel if something as little as stretch marks can turn a man off then he may not be worth keeping because God forbid something dramatic happens to change his woman's physical appearance then he is definitely ghost. Men will be looking for the perfect one all their life then because there is no such thing.
2006-09-27 01:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can be a turn-off but there are a lot more things rather than stretch marks that can be a turn-off before you even get to find out about the stretch marks.
2006-09-27 01:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by nickthesurfer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine go away a while after losing the weight that made them more prominent in appearance. So I don't use anything special, though I do always use a good vitamin A & E lotion no matter what. My diet is Mediterranean for a long time, till I couldn't eat fish anymore and now I eat only chicken as meat. Could be genetics, could be my life choices.
My husband doesn't seem to have any issue at all, but he had better not, as he has stretch marks himself.
2006-09-27 01:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have them, never worried about them until I split with my little ones dad and started dating again, but my new boyfriend never said any thing he said they were part of me and he loved them (that's what they are supposed to say).
Then the other week went out on a work thing and some of the things the lads were saying was horrid, one boy said she had a pretty face but had noticed the stretch marks so would not even bother to go and speak to her.
My thoughts are if you meet some one and they are put off by the stretch marks then move one and look for the one who wants you for what you are. my daughter is worth every one of my stretch marks.
2006-09-27 05:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt turn men off - not the decent ones in any case. It might make the really shallow ones think twice! Stretch marks after pregnancy are natural and yes they can be unsightly but if you look after your skin during pregnancy you can minimise them. I dont know how many women pay to get them removed/minimised though.
2006-09-27 01:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by **Holly** 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'v had four sons and have stretch marks, but hey my husband helped put them there, so no hes not put off by them, u dont notice them very much anyway, but if your worried there are creams and oils you can get... and anyway theres plenty of men out there that have stretch marks also so how would they feel if women were put off by them????
2006-09-27 02:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by ann b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stretch marks are something that cant be helped,there would be no babies born if women worried about something as trivial as that.
Who cares about a man that says it turns them off,some women cant abide bald men ,but that cant be helped either.
2006-09-27 01:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Pat R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't get stretch marks just from having babies but from rapid weight loss/gain. I don't have any babies but at 34 I have stretch marks on my hips from losing weight rapidly in my 20s. None of my partners have ever commented on these negatively although one person I had sex with actively liked tham as a sign of being 'a woman'.
All scars are the same I think, they tell the story of your life and you shuoldtry to accept them as such - as positive things that make you who you are.
2006-09-27 01:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has stretch marks across his back and I think they're cute.
They're part of the man I love so why wouldn't I?
If your partner genuinely loves you enough to have a baby, you would hope he's not so shallow that a few stretchmarks will make any difference!
2006-09-27 03:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by sarahlmann2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋