why it always hard in the part of the girl to express her feeling or affection for a guy. i like this guy very much, but i dont have the courage to tell or even show to him, simply because im a gurl. im afraid that he might think that i was a cheap, im afraid of rejections...........
im afraid that he may not feel the same thing for me. that im just a friend or a little sister for him !!!!!!!!!!!
whaaaaaaaaaaaa for the first in my life i felt this strong attraction toward the opposite sex and im very naive .............
i hope this guy was not a numb, to notice me...............
2006-09-27 01:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women dont like exposing themselves first because of power! If the speak up then they are no longer able to play headgames!
2006-09-27 01:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and people say "sex isn't everything". The fact is in every non-asexual species there is a wooing period. A process that one gender has to have and the other wants to be had or chosen so to speak. For some species its bright colors, sweet sounds, familiar scents or acts of courage. In humans its cologne, boob jobs, great fitting jeans, etc. But when the conquering of the exterior is over, we find inside is just not the place we want to be. In some relationships you'll know this within the first 24 hours, in others it could be 18yrs and 2 kids later. That, being a part of our genetic blueprint should be, should at least be admitted. It is involuntary. The weight of a relationship should be based on more voluntary acts of responsibility, kindness, affection etc. However, just because the libido is in a dormant stage, it doesnt mean its in a coma. It can be stimulated. But the real answer lies within your question. The reason you get noticed by other guys, as once by your husband, is just the natural instinct of one gender wanting and the other being wanted. As in anything else, however, the more you have the more you need, ie, the levels must increase, in this case perhaps, from sexually to animalistically. After all, sexuality is i primeval instinct, thus is is an animalistic characteristic. Once you admit this the road broadens and curves and more keeps you from falling asleep at the wheel, per se. Developing immunity does not end with virus, bacteria etc. Sex drive, or libido, is also very much on the recieving end. In other words, if the best f**king you ever did was on the first night you hopped in the sack, it'll be a tough act to follow, especially for a man, after awhile. But, before you decide to barrel down any "knew doors", it's best to peak through the window. ;o) I hope this answer just changed your life. Peace.
2016-03-27 13:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhhhh.... I totally understand how you feel because most girls out there feel the same out there, especially when it's your first (puppy possibly) love.
But which do you feel more regret for? Not trying to tell him, or telling him and facing possible negative consequences?
But in my opinion, if you don't try, you will never know. And you will always be faced with the "what ifs."
Also, most men are attracted to confident girls.
So? Go for it. Flirt with him a little (this does not mean you throw yourself at him ok but maybe just a bit of touching of the arm "innocently" at times when you two a sharing a joke etc. to drop some hints), ask him out for dates. If you are embarrassed, ask him out for group gatherings first and work from there.
You are young. There are more things out there to be embarrassed about. This is peanuts... So just go for it and good luck!
2006-09-27 01:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by syrope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait be brave show your feelings ,try to ask himpersonal questions ,or do one thing just be part from him for few days ,when he contacts you and ask 's you y u r not meeting him then say that U r feeling good with him as your feelings for him are geeting more possesive and warm and you dont want your heart to get broke ,check out his reply and see if he has the same feelings you will get him or otherwise u will halt at right time.Best of luck ..........!
2006-09-27 01:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by alkumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the way u expressed urself here. Though girls find it difficult to express thier love to the opposite sex, but life is more than that. U can simply tell him u like him. It is one of those things.
2006-09-27 01:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard because you are unconciously governed by the accepted norms in the society you live in and besides, the fear of rejection is what further hinders you from saying your thoughts. maybe being open minded might solve the problem.
2006-09-27 01:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by sunntonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, i guess that's the way we were created. Your body language can reveal a lot of things to the guy and if he digs you, fine and if not, move on.
2006-09-27 01:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is by nature. Women are always on the receiving side. Due to etiquette and being conservative.
2006-09-27 01:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sam X9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead & share ur feelings.... there is nothing like - a girl is shy or unable to express feelings, be confident & get success
2006-09-27 01:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Abhishek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most ppl are afraid of rejection, but if you dont ask you will never know
2006-09-27 01:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋