he's been chatting on the inernet. looked up dating services online, lies about where he' been and who he was with and I know this cos i always catch him out
2006-09-27 01:03:46 · 46 answers · asked by Bonita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's looking for someone else then do the same yourself!! Use him and abuse him until you have no need for him and then leave!!
2006-09-27 01:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Horizontal Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first read this question I thought it have something to do with porn. But Internet dating is something different. Normally people don't go to those sites unless they are wanting to meet someone to have a relationship with. Its not a place to find friends. If he is lying about the Internet then it is likely he will lie about other things. Ask him why he is going to these sites. To try and find answers. Give him a choice tell him he can either quit going to the dating sites or its over. Also you can make a choice by his answers to. Also if you are really unhappy, and you feel you can not let this go, I would end it. You have to look inside and see what it is you feel you should do. But for closer and to help I would still ask him.
2006-09-27 01:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Just another day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, time like this is not met to be ignored and continuously let him go on.
If u knowhe is a liar tell him 2 his face so he knows ur serious coz if he lies just leave hima nd tell him u don't need this behaviour from someone u love.
if he wants other women get him go fetch one coz it seems like he ain't into the one he got (u).
If u know a man is not ufaithgul or loyal to u then why keep him that shows u can't live without a man and ur not indepenten enongh to kick him out...and if u keep him he will think ur stupid coz ur leting him hurt u this way when u don't deserve him.
Don't be nice snap at him, he doesn't seem like he is nice 2 u...Why should u?
I been there so don't let him hurt u, the way my ex did 2 me.
it kills like hell and it shows i'm really insercure and now i know who loves me or not?
it's better to be with a guy that knows he is doing good then doing wrong.
would u ever hurt him that way?
I hope u make a move now or he keep finding ways to hurt u.
he only with u coz every girl comes after men that are taken.
Smile*bye
2006-09-27 01:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonita, you are now engaged in one of the oldest dances on earth between men and women. Jealousy and deceit are the two clearest signs that a couple have no hard center to their own relationship. And yet, they keep at it, sometimes for years. Do you really think that being with someone that you have to watch constantly is a real adult relationship? You are the cop. He is the crook. You will go on dancing until it finally hurts too much to continue. Unless, you want to take mature responsibility now and make a plan for serious change in your life.
2006-09-27 01:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he only being unfaithful on the net? Although I don't think that its right, I think alot of people are curious and do wander a little on the net. I still think it's dishonest and could have intentions of doing more. Sounds like there is a reason he is on the computer "looking". Perhaps boredom. Maybe it's time to spice things up between the two fo you.
2006-09-27 01:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Amy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i got to say is once a cheater always a cheater and if he lied to u then hes going to do it again and again and dont think that this is the first time bcuz it could have been pleanty more youll never know or u can 4 give him and 4 get about the whole thing it how u feel about it and i yall relationship was serious or not
2006-09-27 01:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard sweetie but noone deserves that ****! You need to realise that you need a man who will put you on a pedestal and there is someone out there for everyone who is just right. He sounds like a complete pig and I know right now it seems like the hardest thing in the world to do but it is best for you and once you have done it and had some nights out with your friends you will be fine. Good luck with it.x
2006-09-27 01:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by shepherdess7980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says more about you really, Why do you want to be with someone like this, there are squillions of men on this planet, go check them out, have some fun, then you will realize you were wasting too much time with a mouse in tin foil when what you wanted was a man in shining armour.
2006-09-27 01:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by peebo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship and look for someone else.
place ads in the same places he has on the net and he'll soon see what an a*s has been. by then it will be too late. Getting on with your life will be the best revenge.
2006-09-27 01:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, get over it, let me guess, you do not excite him as much anymore and you do not do back door sex and you probably are carrying a few extra pounds. It is only a matter of time till he starts to meet them, so unless you want to lose him and end up alone, shut up and stop whining, try shedding the weight and tone up and experiment a little, try to please, if he was happy he would not be looking elsewhere, you are failing him
2006-09-27 01:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you caught him cheating via the Internet. unfortunately you probably only caught him due to the convenient location of your computer. so, he has the desire and the capability to cheat. if he lies about who's and where's on top of all of that, sorry honey...you have to break up. otherwise you cant call it cheating if you keep allowing this behavior to continue
2006-09-27 01:08:58 · answer #11 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋