I have seen a married muslim man for over three years... How would I know if he has any intentions of marriage..... How does a muslim man seek a second wife????
2006-09-27 01:01:03 · 9 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's american... has an american wife. He never wants anything from me.... except some time and affections.
2006-09-28 00:41:21 · update #1
Muslim men are allowed to have up to 4 wives at one time given that he can afford to be fair to all of them financially,emotionally as well as physically..All 4 wives will be his legal wives..
My advice is to sit him down & talk.Only then would you know his real intentions.Ask yourself do you mind sharing him with another woman?Are you willing to give up your religion & convert to his?Think hard..it wont be easy being the 2nd wife.
I wish you the best of luck...
2006-09-27 05:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by ddko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother actually dated a married muslim guy for about 4 years. He used her to bring his wife and kids to America. Find out if your boyfriend has a greencard or needs you for anything. I have seen so many of the guys I work with take advantage of their American girlfriends to stay in U.S. Of course, this isn't always the case, but look for warning signs. Often, they are forced by their parents or family members to marry another muslim women and any other marriage or relationship is just for their own convenience.
1.) Does he speak English well? Does he often ask you to accompany him to places for your English skills?
2.) Does he take you out around his friends? Is he embarassed of your relationship or does he "blow you off" around others
3.) Does he plan to have you convert to his religion? Does he accept your religion? Does he ever talk about the future with you?
4.) Do you find yourself giving, giving and giving while receiving nothing? Example, my mom helped her boyfriend get a new car. She went to the dealer with him so she could help break down terms for him. She put him on her insurance, she let him live in her house rent-free. She cooked for him every night, washed his laundry, ect. Then when his legalization papers came, he moved out and disappeared.
2006-09-27 15:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rubberducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i don't know more about ur life , i think u should put end to it ,whether to ask him and see what he is thinking of and decide or leave him.
(may be he wants u to be muslim too)
by the way the muslim has the right only to marry from 1to 4 wives and he has to be so fair to each of them and it happens only for reasons and not always.
good luck
2006-09-27 01:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asalam alaikum wr wb....Dr br in Islam. you're Obligated to stay close sufficient to a masjid to a minimum of attend Friday prayer, if in any respect achievable. U could make the istigharah prayer approximately marriage. If u actual haven't any sexual choose then that is non-needed so which you would be able to marry. that is perplexing i be attentive to to locate a spouse right here interior the west. that could be a factor of the reason i regarded distant places to locate a sister. Its no longer difficult br.....takes it sluggish and attempt although that is extremely do-able Insha'Allah. salaams
2016-10-18 01:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
muslims man can have several wifes. And they can do nikaah with the other wifes but he will have only one legal wife. Oops sorry am nt a muslim.
2006-09-27 01:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will start tell ( in form of joking ), " I want an other wife " but dont worry,
men who get 2nd wife are very rare nowadays, and only they do it under a vary forcing conditions.
2006-09-27 01:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by boiling boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should ask him directly about his intentions before you get more involved with him.
2006-09-27 01:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to him about it.
2006-09-27 01:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ilham Aliyev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same rule applies: has he proposed?
2006-09-27 12:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by chasing rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋