If you really like a girl and you thing you are an okay guy with a good job and money.
I want to know what happens when you go and straight away ask her to marry you in a sincere way?
Or do you have to slowly approach her?
2006-09-27 00:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is really impulsive and she REALLY likes you, then your chances are good. Otherwise, you will crash and burn. I'd say you should date her for 2 years minimum before you make a life long commitment.
2006-09-27 00:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WAT MY BOYFRIEND WOULD SAY...
You don't. You imply it.
Ignore you see in TV or movies. It's called fiction for a reason.
Here's how it works: You don't just admire her from a far, you get to know her. If you just develop a crush on her and suddenly spring into action by confessing your feelings, you end up looking creepy, and will get brushed off.
Women are very quick to categorize you as either a friend or a potential mate. First impressions are everything. By this I don't mean apperance or other such nonsense. I'm referring to the fact that you should let off to her from the beginning that you are interested in her and that you are her type. You should try to get to know her. Introduce yourself and strike up a conversation. If you can't carry a conversation, you will fail. Smile, nod and listen. Common interests are great, but not necessary. The key really is to let her do most of the talking. Don't rant on about your obsessions.
You should monitor how she acts. If she does like you, you'll be able to pick up on it and run with the ball. Parties and dates are better for this than meeting at the school cafeteria. Does she smile back at you? Does she lean towards you? Girls do a lot of subconscious things when they fancy you. You will eventually learn to pick up on these signs.
Act relatively fast. I've ****** up many times by being too timid to act. Strike when the iron is hot; go for the goodbye kiss. Never decline if she asks you in for a cup of coffee or a nightcap or whatever.
I stated that girls are quick to categorize you as a friend or potential mate. What I neglected to tell you is that they are also quite fast to demote you from a potential mate to the friend zone. When this happens, quit pining and move on. When she starts talking to you about other guys (namely about this boy she fancies), don't hang around waiting for something to happen. It's not going to, and you're just waiting for naught. Think of the friend zone as a covalent bond. Breaking it requires energy in the form alcohol and lots of sexual tension. Odds are not in your favor. Keep her as a friend (after all, she might introduce you to someone), fap a few times, but move on.
Good luck.
2006-09-27 01:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married, huh...Are you sure, or do you think that she's ready?? Do you find some instances to her, telling I want to have kids,etc..etc..
I guess, Ask yourself in the mirror first.. Am I ready?? Because there's no second chance to go single again...
And if you are ready....Then, use your favourite outfit (much formal that's ok).. Make ready for the ring...And ask her in a romantic dinner with her to a place you or she never been before.. Make some lines that can please to her, that you wanted her so much... And after that get the ring and bend your knees to her and say, "Would you marry me..."Make your look that you needed her, be serious and sincere..
And I think, it will just fine...
2006-09-27 01:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by realme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't just ask a girl to marry you. You must first have a relationship with her or at least be her really good trusted friend. I can't tell you the answer based upon the details of your question, but I can tell you if you wonder the way you do, it might be best to wait to ask her.
2006-09-27 00:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask her to marry you right away, she will likely be scared off and doubt you're serious despite how serious you are. You're best bet is to slowly approach her and get to know her. Otherwise you will blow whatever chance you could've had.
2006-09-27 00:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If all you have mentioned is complied one must go and express the desire of marriage sincerely. Dont be slow some other will get the good.
2006-09-27 00:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an ice breaker that always has the potiental to create major quantiies of discomfort. It;s also romantic and bold and brave and crazy. its comppletely 50-50 chance.
2006-09-27 00:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you in a relationship with her? If not you might want to slow down just a little bit.
2006-09-27 00:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I follow my heart.... all the tym, dont care what orthers think, best approach is following ure heart and speaking ure mind
2006-09-27 01:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do something to win her heart, that she gets confidence on you. Then if u propose she ll accept. Else you ll regret for it!
2006-09-27 00:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by kummu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋