How can you tell if a guy is generally interested in you and not just into the chase to get you into bed?

Answer 1

After the second part the first part is irrelevant

Answer 2

First, do you spend time together when you are not making out?
Second, do you do things like taking a walk together, not just things that could lead to sex?
Third, does he introduce you to his family and friends?

Take some time - maybe a couple of months - and see how things go, the longer you spend getting to know him, the more likely it is that your relationship will work.

I hear girls complain that they meet a guy, sleep with him after just a day or two and then they wonder why they never see him again - honestly girls, so you think he would want to spend the rest of his life with, or marry, a girl who would sleep with him so quickly! Think about it.

If you behave in a more decent, modest, moral way, your chances of marriage increase because that is what men are looking for in a wife. The girls they can sleep with easily are certainly not the ones they will eventually marry.

Answer 3

If you are still keeping him at arms length after a month or so and he still wants to be with you - it's quite a good sign. If he has similar interests to you and is interested in what you have to say - that is also a good sign. Try and find out his past history - if he has had a number of 'love them and leave them' relationships be wary as it is likely you will become just another notch on the bedpost.

Answer 4

be freinds first! its too easy to jump into bed with someone to make them like you, at the end of the day its not about waiting a week or a month, unfortunately blokes can still wait that long, get their leg over and then you dont see them for dust!
Are they looking for a relationship, are you? do you like them? does it matter if it starts off as a casual relationhsip. if youre brave, then ask him about previous relationships, has he had many 'girlfreinds' chances are he may not be looking for 'miss right' more likely to be looking for 'miss right now'
When you know what you want, you call the shots!!
Good luck

SJ
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Answer 5

How do you feel? What I mean is, how are you feeling inside when you are with him. Is he genuine when you are having conversations? Do you feel he is open about topics such as relationships, former girlfriends? A man will be a man. Sex will always be on his mind. But, the thing is, if he is honest and you are honest in your feelings for each other let things happen naturally. If your feelings for each other are strong then it will happen anyway. it does take time to feel people out. But never set yourself up for failure.

Answer 6

It's easy just come on to him and see how he reacts! If he says nothing and just starts going along with you then he just wants sex, if he ask what are you doing then he likes you . Then you can tell him that you really want to wait awhile before the two of you have sex.
Always Amy

Answer 7

If you dont want to go to bed with the guy give him a break and say so.

If you do want to go to bed with the guy then you can be a bit coquettish if you want but there's no real problem is there?

Answer 8

Me and my boyfriend got together because he wanted sex. We have been together 5 years. Sometimes the line is so thin that it gets confused. Pay close attention to the way he looks at you, the things he says and is body language, like when he puts his arm round you where does his hand lie? You'll work it out!

Answer 9

It's the bed option for me anytime!!!

Answer 10

dont sleep with him for at least 6 months if he gets frustrated and cant wait dump him