my daughter is 27 months. too much attach to me. should i send her to preschool or it is too early?

Question

well, as she too much attach to me.. will sending her at preschool harm her emotionaly??

Answer 1

Please do not listen to other and send het GOOD play group. Same was the problem with us.We were having sleepless night thinking how she will go to playgroup and she was not getting get to gather with other people, but after sending ti "BACHPAN" now she os grooming extra ordinarlly. And they are never ever making child to study.it is 100% fun & play. Before it ws doing with my wife only and now she is doing at "BACHPAN". My baby was 24 month old when she started going at play group and my brother's baby was 18 months old.

FOR ALL OTHER PEOPLE COME OUT OF PARADOX.

Answer 2

My mom sent me to pre-school at 3. My younger sister was and still is extremely attached to my mom. She has gotten better though because my mom set up times for her to play with other kids. Of course with a six people family this did affect the laundry, but it worked out better in the end. She nows asks to go over her friends houses when before she much rather follow my mom everywhere. Her attachment might also have to do with the fact she is the youngest of four. She will always be seen as the baby. From watching my family, I think you should wait a year to send your daughter and then find a nice preschool. Mine was two and a half hours for three or two days a week.

Answer 3

The more time you spend with your daughter the better your relationship. Find a play group to take her to. That way she is getting the experience she will need to play with others. Are you in the Hampton Roads area? I am looking for a playgroup as well for my 2yr old daughter. If you do need some free time from your daughter try finding a part time preschool for a couple days a week. It wont emotionally damager your daughter, just help her grow.

Answer 4

As far as I know in most states the child must be 3 yrs old for pre-school and potty trained. Unless you mean day care, then that is totally different. Which ever you choose according to age please be sure to check into it thouroughly and also be sure they have a license to be child care givers. Did you try a small play group where the mom's are there but the children play while the mom's sit close by? You can put a note on the bulletin board of you local supermarket.

Answer 5

I think preschool starts at 2yrs. 9 months so yes - too early. That may vary in different pre-schools but that is the starting age here.
My son is the same age as your daughter - he is quite attached to me and his dad. Enjoy it because it won't last long. Before you know it she will be an adolescent who is embarrassed by everything you do and who will refuse to be seen with you in the same mall.

Answer 6

There is too much pressure on kids these days to grow up quickly. Really, once she starts proper school it's all downhill in the clinging to mum stakes. She'll trot off into school without a backward glance and make a whole new group of friends then not be so reliant on you. You will then probably miss her clingyness a lot more than she will miss you.

I would enjoy the closeness for another year or so.

Answer 7

I had 6 children and 3 step children..I also had a daycare and taught Parenting skills . Your baby loves you...you are her world. You feed her, bathe her,rock her to sleep, teach her ,love her, you are her world..or at least the most important person to her. She looks to you to show her the world, and what she needs to learn. Your face is the first face she bonded to. She is a baby...even though parents in this age think of a 2 year old as older then they are, try to get a book that show age appropriate behavior and learning skills. It is normal for babies to go through stages of being clingy to mom...sometimes daddy then gets his chance...but soon they will be off to school, and they won't want you as much. And faster then you can say Boo!! They don't want you in their business at all! Enjoy the time you have with her now . The grow up so fast. Why let someone else she all her first in life. Enjoy them yourself. I know it is popular to throw them in pre-school, but it would be better for her if you and a friend with a child or children went to a park and played, or had a play date where you fingerpainted with chocolate pudding or make colors with food coloring in vanilla pudding and let them paint and lick their fingers at the same time. Get a book on fun crafts for toddlers. You can teach her,EXAMPLE: letters one at a time ...draw a picture of an Apple and put an A next to it.etc. with the letters. Hang it on the fridge or wall. One letter a week or two and every once in a while say" A ...APPLE etc with the letter. Make it fun...put her peas in the shape of an A on her plate..get creative. She has a lifetime to learn...let her learn the fun stuff while she has you to share the experience with her.

Answer 8

NO! It's not too early! I think people are misunderstanding the term 'pre-school'- at that age it's only a 2x a week for about 3-4 hours at a time.

I started mine at 14 months old. She'd go Tuesday and Thursday from 9-1 and she LOVES it! She's 3 now and always talks about her friends from school.

Answer 9

Depending on the preschool-no, but why do you feel she is too attached to you?
That's what we want are children to do-become attached as we are to them.
Don't have enough information in your question but do you feel she is too attached to you or is it because she is taking up too much of your time?
Is she your first child? Are you a young person? Not enough information.

Answer 10

It is to early, but i would look into play grroups or a couple of hrs in a Great daycare or with a family member while you and your child a a little time apart. When it is time for preschool she will come to understand that you will be back for her.