I have like this really nice guy for a long time. When I first kinda met him, I had a boyfriend, when I split with my boyfriend of the time and was single this guy I liked was overseas (for almost 1 year or so). When he came back, I had met someone else. Nonetheless, I married this someone else and less than a year later we separated. Now that I am single, this guy has a girlfriend. There are small "quirky things" (I guess is the best word to describe it) that happen each time I see this guy like when he first met me, he like me (but I had my first b'friend), then when he found out I was getting married, he pulled a very unusual " dissapointed facial expression". Now that I am single, I have realised that I have always liked him, but never acted upon it....now that he has a girlfriend (which I think he has had for the last two years or so) I am scared that I have missed out on an opportunity or if it is meant to be then it will be...what do you guys think?
2006-09-27 00:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by AngelRose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But I am too scared to ask him...he has this girlfriend...when I was in highschool there was a teacher who loved this other teacher and just knew that they were meant to be. However, she was engaged to someone else. But he waited and waited and then exactly two years after this, I bumped into the pair of them in a shopping centre, and I asked what they were doing and they said that they were together getting lunch, and I aksed "together" or "together or together" and this teacher who never gave up hope smiled and said they were together and she said she wished she had seen him so much sooner and since then they have got married and yeah...are together...
2006-09-27 00:45:20 · update #1
If you are certain that you have feelings for him (not just regrets of "what might have been") then why not call him? You say youre friends with him. Talk to him. Ask about his relationship, if he says it is serious resign yourself to "what if's" and let him be happy. If he says they are still working on their own "what if's" then you can let him know youre disappointed he isnt "on the market" in much the same manner that he did... he didnt interfere in your future, but you saw his disappointment that you were not available anymore. If it is meant to be it will be. Just dont burn bridges by pressing him.
2006-09-27 00:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only believed it once, and no.
Sounds like you have no chance at all if he has a girlfriend, and you are getting married. There is no missed opportunity; you've both created your own chances and choices and you no longer need to think about this. I think you're anxious about getting married, and that's a normal feeling. Try not to think about this guy again. You wouldn't wait for him, you both moved on, good luck with your marriage.
2006-09-27 07:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to ask for what you want. Don't be like me and wait around and wait around until he marries this other girl. Tell him now! Who knows, he may have just been to much of a gentleman (or shy) to tell you he feels the same way. Besides you have nothing to lose and everything to gain just by expressing yourself.
2006-09-27 07:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dani L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether both your hearts know and feel that. If one person feels it and the other doesn't, its usually life's way of telling you it isn't right and saving you for someone who is.
But at the end of the day, if you believe it is meant to be and u think he feels the same, don't let that chance get away ;)
2006-09-27 07:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by beckyroiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey yh im in the same situation as you are i can't get over a guy who has a girlfriend but i fink you should be really good mates with him and show him what he is missing if he breaks up with her then great but if he doesn't then he may be over you or he is stupid not to fall for you and it is his loss Good Luck xxx
2006-09-27 07:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_Party_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never been my experience to end up with the person I thought was "the one". That's why I stopped believing in soulmates and all that crap and just sleep around. lol. I'm old enough to know life ain't a fairy tale, love sucks, get what you can out of life.
Jaded? No. Realistic? Yep. But good luck on your thing....
2006-09-27 07:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-27 07:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, only in the movies does that happen on a 100% basis. In the real world, we don't have that close of a chance at all. I have felt that way three times....and still not with any of them.
2006-09-27 07:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by DrMikeonCall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could be girl named ANGELROSE and have the problem, what for I'll be going to married man who is worse in my imagination then the other. Maybe the facial expression was - how the ugly women could find men to married her.
What is really good for you - you already confused. Your call,,..
2006-09-27 07:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This ain't no perfect world, Honey!! Things don't just happen as we think they should, you make your choices
2006-09-27 07:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Quartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋