2006-09-27 00:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Diwakar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Woman cannot share her son, brother or husband with any other woman. This is the basic reason one's wife and mother find it difficult to develop rapport between themselves.
One should love his mother and wife equally. Both the relations are different and both types of love would be having different wave lengths. Hence it would be possible to develop a balance.
First try to generate love and affection between both of them by letting one know the good qualities of the other... through yourself... playing the mediator.
Your relation with both of them would automatically be improved.
2006-09-27 11:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before doing that remember that the first Letters of both the persons viz. M & W are exactly reverse in direction.It is perhaps the most difficult balancing act that most married men hate to confront. Anyway have only one golden rule that " Never praise your mother in front of your wife & vice versa " then your half the problem is solved.Rest of the problem may be solved by finding a seperate accomodation for one of them.Otherwise learn to play " Deaf & Dumb " man infront of both.Diplomacy and Common Sense are the best tools to handle this dilemma.
2006-09-27 03:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rajendra K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be loved by your mother because they say a mother is the one who loves you the most.
Tell your wife that you can get a new wife but you cannot get a new mother.
The mother in law and daughter in law relations is like a mother and daughter relationship and in that relationship the daughter listens to the mother and so you tell your wife that your mother is the senior and she should respect her.
2006-09-27 00:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there shouldn't be a problem with that. you share a totally different kind of love for your wife than your mother. You shouldn't have to choose or find ways to show them affection.
2006-09-27 00:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play cool funny game between them any way u cannot be on one side alwas. u need to shift based on the situation of your career. money affairs. emotion disturbs ur career. concentrate on carreer focus , analyse the situation. decide today who is the best to fall emotionally. talk to mother closely infront of wife . that make s her love u more . get one love for certain period. switch mechnism . when fight comes dont commit any thing. decide who r attacking maximum. console them leave other aside. play family love games. not hatred games. be with both when attending other functons. take them temples functions. which generates positive rapport between them. if they r fighting bring new friend ask hi to sit in the house. they stop fighting.
2006-09-27 09:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by meenakshim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the mother and screw the wife.
2006-09-27 00:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by idsalex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless one of them has an immotional problem and doresn't want to share, nature will take care of the balance for you. If one of them has a problem, get counselling. We'd need to much info to help you here.
2006-09-27 00:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't have to.what did you do marry the same gal as your mom ?look into yourself and see where the problem lies. you didn't choose your mom,but you did choose your wife.whatever the problem you were aware of it b/f the marriage.what did you do about it? married it?not to say the wife is the problem.you are.you've allowed a situation to go on that you knew was there and volatile.
2006-09-27 00:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love ur mum at daytime and wife at night time
2006-09-27 00:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by stupid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love your wife while ur mother sleep.love ur mother while you sleep
2006-09-27 00:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by guharamdas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋