2006-09-26 23:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by lizzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes i have felt that way before if your parents r good parents they will love u all equally i thought this too but i realized they dont even if they give more stuff they still love u equally
2006-09-27 04:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not something you can just get over. However, you should do things that will build confidence in yourself, and surround yourself as much as you can with carefully chosen friends that will support you and love you for who you are. Try to remember that why parents love some children more than other quite often has nothing to do with the child or anything the child has done, rather it is often a problem with the parent. It is very important that you do not feel it is your fault and that you need to change.
2006-09-26 23:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my mother has always loved my sister more than me because I look like my father and she was extremely bitter towards him. It doesn't worry me, my sister can have her. I have barely spoken to my mother in 8 years and i am better for it, she used to abuse me when I was kid by hitting me with a stick and then when I got too old for her to do that she just heightened the verbal abuse, i had chronic heartburn from the stress and my son was having nightmares about her so I cut her loose. I no longer take ulcer strength antacid medication and I don't miss her. My sister sees her, that's fine with me, but it isn't something any mother should do to her kids. I just lived better, that in time helped me get over it. my kids have a happier Mum and they are happy with me, that is rewards aplenty.
2006-09-26 23:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i have my mom is like that with my younger bro. he is 14 and im 16. (both birthday are in november) you dont ever get over it, you learn to live with it.
she knows and has addmitted that she treated me differently because i was the oldest and i was a daddy's girl (of course that was before he left and played mind games, but that a whole different story) so he was always a momma's boy and now she trys to treat us the same.
its sort of easy for her because he has become such a jerk that she is mad at him most of the time, but when they do get along they are as close as they used to be and its like i'm not there. it still hurts, but you just have to live with it and accept it, you didnt do anything wrong, and there is nothing you can do to change their ways.
i think when she first realized what she was doing was when i was about 10 i asked her why she hated me. after that i think she trys.
the irony is that he tells her that i was always her favorite and that she was mean to him.
2006-09-26 23:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by FeBan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have & still do.My mom loves my older brother so much that he talks to her any kind of way & she will do anything for him.As kids he got everything given to him & he was put up higher than anyone.I don't think of it so much now cause how great she treated him has back fired in her face. He don't have nothing to do with her unless he's high.(stoned).Funny thing he lives across the street from her. Karma what goes around comes around.
2006-09-26 23:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my mid forties, and i still feel that way. Theres not alot you can do about it. Parents try and divide there time and love equally amongst their children. sometimes though, one child might need more guidance than the other. Its best to just learn to deal with it, and know that your parent loves you. theres no way you can change the
outcome. so deal with it.
2006-09-27 00:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way to get over it, try to make some fun of it.
what i learnt is ''dont care, just try to make ur life better and be happier than ur siblings'', then u hit the target, terrific job !!
good luck :)
2006-09-27 00:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I do. I never feel important in my family. I've tried fitting in, but now I just keep to myself more. I mostly stay in my room and talk to my friends. I love music. Music fixes every problem I have.
2006-09-27 01:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parent usually know their children pretty well, if they like another child more than you its probably because the others are better. Try finding a home with children who are handicap
2006-09-26 23:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,my mum luv my sis more
i cant get over it but i've learnt to accept & live with it
i realised that trying to get her to like me more was a total waste of my time,instead i should focus on making myself happy & doing things that I want
2006-09-27 00:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by liz c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋